How love comes and goes
From a psychological point of view, the production of love is related to the level of Dopamine secretion in the brain. When two people fell in love at first sight or at a certain stage, it was the moment when the secretion of adrenaline was the highest. This state could be called " passionate love under the secretion of adrenaline ", which was a physiological factor in the production of love. At the same time, the famous psychologist Sternberg proposed the triangle theory of love, which believed that the three elements of love were passion, intimacy, and commitment. Passion was the attraction between two people, the fluctuation of emotions, and the fascination of certain charms on each other; intimacy was the sense of trust and security produced after two people were together; commitment was a loyalty and guarantee for the relationship between two people. When these three elements were gradually formed in the relationship between the two, love would also be born. The disappearance of love could be caused by many factors. On a physiological level, as the two people spent more time together, the level of secretion of adrenaline would decrease, and love would turn dull. From a psychological perspective, there was a " sensory adaptation effect ", which meant that people's reaction to any external stimulus would eventually return to dullness, which was reflected in the lack of novelty in their feelings. For example, in the long-term process of getting along with your partner, you will gradually adapt to your partner's charm, companionship, and other stimulations, and your initial passion will decrease. Moreover, different stages of love had different forms of expression. When love developed to a certain extent, the form would change, and it might be misunderstood as the disappearance of love. For example, from being a couple to fighting for a common future after marriage. If this change was not understood correctly, it would make people mistakenly think that love had disappeared. In addition, when the three elements of passion, intimacy, and commitment in love change, for example, only one or two of them remain, the mode of love will change, and it may also lead to an incomplete love mode such as " empty love," which will be considered as the disappearance of love.
Love comes and goes like a gust of wind
This was the lyrics of the Hokkien song,"A Wind of Love." This song was written by Chen Baitan and Chen Weixiang, composed by Chen Baitan, and sung by Chen Baitan. The song expressed the uncertainty of love. It came and went without a trace like the wind, bringing smiles, sadness, resentment, and other complicated emotions. In addition, this song had been covered by many singers. There were also books written with it as the theme to show related love stories. There were also many articles that quoted its lyrics to describe their feelings about love.
Love comes and goes, but I lose to life
In real life, there was indeed a phenomenon where love was defeated by life. Just like the relationship between a middle-aged couple, after many years of marriage, love would often be worn down by all kinds of trivialities in life. For example, in family life, both husband and wife had to bear the responsibility of having children, supporting the elderly, earning money to support the family, and so on. These pressures could easily make the relationship between husband and wife tense. From the state of some middle-aged couples, it could be seen that some had slept in separate rooms for many years and looked at each other silently; some pretended to be harmonious, but there were gaps in ability and contradictions between husband and wife; and some took turns to take care of their children after divorce. In terms of childbirth, women often had to bear the pain of childbirth and the fatigue of motherhood. This relationship between husband and wife was also a test. In East Asian culture, men and women had different feelings about marriage. Women felt more pain from childbirth, while men were more grateful and happy. In addition, economic pressures such as housing and children's education often lead to anxiety and quarrels between couples, making it difficult for love to exist in marriage. All of these showed that many factors in life would have a huge impact on love, making love face many challenges in life.
As the saying goes, rebirth comes first, love comes after marriage
The following are some recommendations from the ancient novels about love after marriage: 1. "The Reborn Humble Wife": The story described Sui Yuan's experience from being a Humble Wife to the Marquis of Ning An. The relationship between the husband and wife went from the initial tacit understanding to the subsequent silence, as well as Sui Yuan's dominant position in the marriage. This novel might be a good choice. 2. "The Daily Life of an Ancient Hunter": The story tells the story of a fair and capable village girl and a tall and rough hunter's love story after marriage. The background is set in the daily life of the village in a slightly chaotic world. 3. "The Daughter of an Aristocratic Family and a Humble General": The story described the rebirth of a dignified noble daughter of an aristocratic family and a loyal dog of a Humble General. 4. "The Age Is Bright (Double Rebirth)": This was an ancient novel about double rebirth. It told the story of the male protagonist recovering his memories of his previous life bit by bit. It was a strange style of chasing his wife to the crematorium. 5. "Fierce General": This is an ancient love story. It tells the story of a young and infatuated princess and a fierce general who is strong enough to carry mountains and rivers. Please note that the novels recommended above are based on the search results provided. I cannot guarantee that these novels will suit your taste.
As the saying goes, love comes first after marriage
I recommend " Marriage of the World ", a superb novel written by Yi Qian about the rebirth of the old saying. The male and female leads had been married for generations. After the female lead was reborn, she did not simply take revenge, but worked hard to make herself stronger. The male lead was very ordinary. His identity was awkward and his talent was average, but he worked hard. Their relationship was repressed and delicate. They slowly got along with each other from being unlikeable, growing up together like an old couple. The writing was exquisite, the plot was reasonable, the characters were vivid, there were not many golden fingers, and the emotions were natural. Although it was a little trivial, it was great overall. This was a unique masterpiece in the rebirth novel. It was different from the common rebirth novels. The female lead did not turn the world around but lived vividly. The interaction between the male and female leads was super nice and worth watching. " Love After Marriage " was not bad either. It was a modern romance written by Zhao Nuannuan. It was a story about a girl who was reborn as a loli in the 1970s. There was an arranged marriage. The female lead was not used to it at first, but later she compromised and married the domineering, single-minded and eye-catching male lead. This was a relaxing military novel from the 70s and 80s. It was mainly about family trivia, love rejection, love triangle, and love square. It was a book that people would fall in love with after reading it. There was also "The First Virtuous Woman", which was also written in the letter about ancient romance. The female protagonist was decisive after transmigrating. Her goal was to be a good wife. The male protagonist pretended to like men. The story was relaxed and humorous. The female lead had a likable personality. She spoke one thing after another. The plot was full of ups and downs. There were secrets and identity crises. The relationship between the male and female leads was natural. It was a good novel to read. The novel " Did His Highness Chase His Wife to the Crematorium " is equally exciting. Everyone is welcome to click and read it!
Spring comes and goes
Spring came and went. From the literal meaning, it referred to the arrival and departure of spring, symbolizing the change of seasons. In cultural and artistic works, this expression was given many meanings. It could express a calm attitude, such as " Spring comes and goes naturally ", or it could contain a heart of sorrow, such as " I can't hope for flowers to bloom and fall, and I can't keep the spring coming and going." It expressed the melancholy of the disappearance of beautiful things. In addition,'spring comes and spring goes' was also used to describe the passage of time. For example, in some prose,'the chirping of birds is the sentence of spring, and the years are fluttering.' It used spring to express the rush of time. In terms of artistic creation, some artists created paintings with the theme of "Spring comes and goes, living up to the splendor of youth", depicting the beautiful scenery of spring and the dreams, hopes, and other emotions contained in it. The novel, Drunken Golden Cup, is equally exciting. Everyone is welcome to click and read it!
Fate comes and goes
Fate was a subtle and complicated concept. In the world of relationships, fate had its depth, length, and separation. Sometimes, fate would suddenly come. For example, some couples would quickly come together by chance. For example, a person born in 1994 and a person born in 2000 had a difference of six years. They confirmed their relationship three to five days after they met as the best man and bridesmaid. There were many coincidences that could not be together. And fate would also have an end. When fate was over, people who used to love each other would also go their separate ways. Even if they used to love each other deeply and had many beautiful memories, they would still part ways when fate was over. People would change, and so would their hearts. No matter how much they yearned for each other, it was difficult to recover their former tenderness. At the same time, fate was also reflected in some literary works. For example, the TV series Fate told the story of many middle-aged men and women and their children's entanglements in love and marriage, showing the influence of fate on family and interpersonal relationships. The novel " Sitting and Watching Immortals " is equally exciting. Everyone is welcome to click and read it!
The wind comes and goes
According to the information provided, the original singer of " The Wind Comes and Leaves " was Ren Xia. " Hugging You in the Wind of the City " was equally exciting. Everyone was welcome to click and read it!
Spring comes and goes
In ancient China, the beginning of spring (February 4 or 5) was the beginning of spring. After the beginning of spring, all things revived and flourished. The folk custom was to use the first month of the first month to March as spring, and the first day of the first month was the first day of spring. The weather department usually used the Gregorian calendar from March to May as spring, and modern astronomy used the vernal equinox (March 20 or 21) as the beginning of spring. Due to China's vast territory, spanning more than 50 latitudes from north to south, the geographical conditions were complicated, and the specific date of spring and the length of stay were different. Spring Gone was the end of spring, and then it would be summer. The departure of spring could also mean that time was in a hurry. For example, the description of spring in ancient poems often contained emotions about the passage of time. For example,"Helpless flowers fall, familiar swallows return" expressed the regret of the departure of spring. The novel, Drunken Golden Cup, is equally exciting. Everyone is welcome to click and read it!
Fate comes and goes
The short drama " Fate Comes and Fate Departs " was released in 2024. It had a total of 70 episodes, and the genre was a modern urban drama. At present, the complete set could be watched through the endless broadcast address, but there was no information about the plot introduction. "Coincidentally, Love Is Parting" is also a wonderful novel. Everyone is welcome to click and read it!
As the old saying goes, love comes first after marriage
The following are some recommendations of the ancient romance novels: 1. Author: Fa Cai 2. The Lady of Rebirth Author: Smiling Beauty 3. "Lord Marquis 'Daily Slapping" Author: Watermelon Nun 4. "Spring River Flower Moon" Author: Penglai Guest Meowmei 5. The Sinful Wife by Lan Ai 6. The Road to a Spoiled Wife by Xiao Jiaren 7. The Daily Life of a Cabinet Minister's Wife 8. Author: Shui Huaizhu 9. "Under the Heng Gate" Author: Tian Ruyu 10. Married to Jun Huan Author: Say to the Moon 11. "The Year Is Bright (Double Rebirth)" Author: August in Summer 12. Svelte Waist by Zen Listening to the Left Ear 13. Author: Yi Qianzhong 14. "Bow Down" Author: Penglai Guest These novels covered the plot of Gu Yan's love after marriage, and some of them also included elements such as rebirth, sweet pampering, and face-slapping. The readers could choose the works to read according to their preferences.