What did you say in an unsound relationship?

Answer 1

In " Imperfect Relationship," there was an awkward age called getting married too early and falling in love too late. It was boring to play with children, and there was no common topic to talk about with adults. He was too idle at home and had no money when he went out. If you don't want to do anything, you will be scolded for not having an ideal. If you have too many thoughts, you will be accused of not being practical. The purpose of experiencing youth once in a lifetime is to listen to the sound of flowers blooming, watch the silence of flowers falling, and then leave. It turns out that the best thing is not to meet you in the most beautiful years, but to feel the beauty of the years after meeting you. Love is not to fall in love with a perfect person, but to love you before he is perfect. Night and day, lips and teeth are dependent, but they never meet again. Perhaps there is no chance, but a quick glance will make you fall in love from then on. What a beautiful word it was to come as promised. The hard work of waiting was never let down. In this world where everything was fickle, I wanted to see eternity. Life was like a dream, gathering and parting. The morning was like a spring flower curtain withering. How many reunions, how many parting, fate came and went, how could it be free? Not afraid of the future, not thinking about the past, was the most beautiful response to time, hoping that this long time would be gentle and peaceful. Most people make mistakes because they use their brains too much when they should use their true feelings, and when they should use their brains, they are too emotional. There were three basic mistakes that people could not make. One was to be humble and have a high position. The second was to have little wisdom and have great plans. The third was to have little strength and have heavy responsibilities. All the sudden changes were accompanied by a long foreshadowing. Don't say everything you know, don't believe everything you hear. If you don't abandon hope, hope will not abandon you. If you set your mind on something, you must do it. If you don't do it, there is no chance of failure. That is the real failure. Carnival is the loneliness of a group of people, loneliness is the carnival of one person. There was one thing that life did not like. It always let the more sensible people bear the bad feelings and results. The voice was weak, and the eyes were lifeless, like a planet that had stopped rotating to save power. Sometimes, the other party kept dodging the questions asked, which meant that the tactful answer was cruel. They only remembered someone's poisonous tongue, savagery, and shrew, but they could not remember the person who loved them. I don't want to see you in this life, just to see you again. The you in my heart won't reappear, but only the vicissitudes of time and fleeting years. If you don't like something, change it. If you can't change it, change your attitude and don't complain. There is often a fine line between "being yourself" and rudeness. Don't call "rudeness""being yourself". Being poor doesn't mean how much you have in your pocket, but how much you have in your heart. Morality is used to restrain oneself, not to weigh others. Be strict with yourself and be lenient with others. Two stones thrown into the water, too close, too close, the waves will interfere with each other. Don't let me look at you in front, don't let me look back at you behind me, please come to my side and walk with me. It's better to be quick than late. That's what traveling is. It's the trick to start at once." Your life is yours. As long as you know what you are looking for, you can live according to your own wishes. What others say has nothing to do with you. Snow only has one self in her heart. She lives in a terrible state because of this. She has no time to take care of the emotional changes of the people around her and take countermeasures. As a result, she hurts others and brings disaster to herself. Even if life is repeated again, she will definitely do the same thing.[You can't figure out what your real self is, can't tell which one is the real you and which one is the role you're playing, can't tell the boundary between yourself and your own shadow. You have to be a calm adult. You can't be emotional. You can't look back. You can't secretly miss. You have to be obedient. Not all fish live in the same sea.] There was no other way. Everyone had to grow up. Even if they did not want to grow up, they had to grow up. Moreover, they had to grow old and frail in all kinds of distress. They had to die even if they did not want to die. It had been the case since ancient times and it would be the same in the future. There was not only one person who had distress. They had always thought that people aged slowly, but in fact, it was not the case. People aged in an instant. They would not do annoying things and would not take the opportunity to impose on others, so they had never lied. The less imaginative a person was, the better at self-beautification in their mind. If one listened carefully, it was not difficult to tell the direction of his movements. As usual, it was regrettable that time did not stop. The past increased, the future decreased, hope decreased, and regret increased. It was true that there was no great success. Almost all the efforts were only temporary measures, but they were just temporary waste. The arrival of fatigue had nothing to do with beauty or age, just like the occurrence of storms, earthquakes, lightning, and floods. The so-called stimulation was something that could not be shown to others. If it could be shown to others, it would not be a big stimulation. Because it was something that two imperfect creatures worked together, it might not be successful every time. Sometimes, they were disappointed, and sometimes they were so happy that they forgot everything. Deep in the heart, love and loneliness were actually the same kind of emotion. They were always inseparable. He knew that someone was walking through the crowd towards him. Someone was somewhere in this world. When he thought of this, his heart became peaceful. Perhaps he did not know her, but he was no longer entangled in whether he had missed the most beautiful years of the other party. He was not entangled in who he had loved or who he had broken his heart for. They were not perfect. They were warm to each other. Please wait for me on your road. We will eventually meet. Everyone was most afraid that what they gave out was their heart, and others would return it with a knife. Friendship or love. There were many people who liked people because they didn't understand them. If they understood them, they might not like them anymore. Cherish those people who could be coaxed, because you must be very special and important in their hearts. They were afraid that they would accidentally lose you. You had the maturity that your peers didn't have. You had the pressure that your peers didn't have. Time didn't wait for anyone. You didn't go around time either. Mediocrity was like a stain on a white shirt. Once it was stained, it would never be washed away. It was irreversible. There was no need to be late in achieving great things. While you were young, you should strive to create the greatest value for your talents. As long as the circle of people was not too big, it would be fine as long as it could accommodate you and a portion of others. It did not matter how many friends you had, as long as you were sincere. There was no misunderstanding in the world, only disagreement. Everyone was pursuing something, but the way they pursued it was different, so friction and misunderstanding occurred from time to time. Many times, one's own pain was in one's heart, but one's happiness was in the eyes of others. This was how things were. Times flowed like quicksand, and the position one stood in was not the position one stood in. Time was the same as corruption. Unexpected things changed in unexpected ways, and no one knew about it. Once you learned to break the jar and throw away the pot, you would find that the world was suddenly bright. The person who hurt others was actually the most pitiful, because his soul needed redemption the most. Pretentious could not be eaten. People stronger than you were fighting hard. What reason did you have not to work hard? There was no such thing as a counterattack in this world. If there was, it was just the result of self-discipline and hard work day after day. Treat hard work as a habit, not a moment of passion. Facing it did not necessarily mean courage. Sometimes, it took a lot of courage to quit. The eye was a ruler, measuring others first; the heart was a scale, weighing others first. Regardless of whether the world treated you gently or not, please maintain your kindness because of good luck.