" A gentleman should also be on guard." It meant that noble people should be clean and self-loving, act wisely, and avoid situations that might be misunderstood and suspected in advance, so as to avoid suspicion. It was often used to warn people to be cautious and avoid suspicion. This statement came from the phrase " A gentleman should take precautions and not be suspicious. A melon field does not accept shoes, and a plum tree does not correct its crown." For example, when Yuan Yuxiu was the prefect of Boling during the Northern Qi Dynasty, he was an honest official and had a clear distinction between public and private affairs. When he passed by Yanzhou, he refused the white silk sent by his old friend, the governor of Yanzhou, Xing Shao, on the grounds that he was suspicious of the melon field. This was the embodiment of the concept of " a gentleman should also be on guard."
To be a gentleman and guard against villains, one needed to start from many aspects. In terms of the realm of thought, a gentleman should uphold noble aspirations, follow the example of the sages, pursue a brilliant realm, and not be bound by the mediocre rules of the secular world and be content with enjoyment. At the same time, a gentleman should stick to the golden mean. He should pay attention to accuracy and propriety in doing things, neither excessive nor discount. He should pay attention to personal cultivation and mental state, and prevent being willful and emotional. In terms of behavior, a gentleman should be cautious. Even when he was alone, he should be cautious in his thoughts, words, and actions, and have a clear conscience. The identification of villains could be judged from their behavior. For example, villains acted one way in front of others and another behind their backs. They treated others with hypocrisy. When they were alone, they indulged their desires. Their words and deeds were unscrupulous. There were many secrets hidden in their hearts. In terms of social interaction, there was a saying,'It's better to fight with a gentleman than to talk to a villain.' It was better to make enemies with a gentleman than to be friends with a villain. It was better to be angry with a gentleman than to reason with a villain. He would rather argue with a gentleman than fight with a villain. In addition, it was also necessary to realize that gentlemen and villains were not absolutely unchanging. People could make mistakes. When there might be "villains", they should not arbitrarily "label" others, but they should still be vigilant when interacting with others to protect themselves from the harm that villains might bring.
Based on context alone You may have misstated it. The usual saying is,"A gentleman takes precautions and does not place himself in the midst of suspicion; a melon field does not accept shoes, and a plum tree does not correct the crown", etc., emphasizing that a gentleman will take the initiative to avoid situations that may be misunderstood. As for the saying," Don't have the heart to harm others, but be wary of others ", it meant that one had to be wary of those who might hurt oneself. According to the literal meaning of your statement, it is a rather contradictory statement. Because villains usually do things through improper means, it is not logical for villains to guard against gentlemen. Usually, gentlemen will guard against villains 'improper means, while villains are more likely to use each other or scheme against each other. There is no fixed pattern of one party guarding against the other.
A gentleman can guard against villains from many aspects. First of all, he had to be vigilant and not take it lightly. He had to uphold the attitude of " never harm others, but never be on guard against others." Secondly, he had to be careful in his words and deeds to avoid being used by villains to threaten him. Moreover, he had to be good at identifying people, stay away from places of trouble, identify potential villains around him, and stay away. He could also guard against villains from his own strength and attitude. Work hard to improve yourself, be it in terms of knowledge, skills, or interpersonal relationships. When you are strong enough, small people often don't dare to offend you easily. At the same time, when getting along with villains, you can be generous on the surface, but you must be strictly guarded in private, such as pretending to be stupid when facing the villain's test, not revealing your true thoughts; in the face of villains close to show weakness; in the face of villains instigation, pretend to be deaf and mute. Keep a distance from the villain, maintain the surface courtesy, avoid deep friendship, neither too close nor too distant. If the villain's attacks and schemes were unavoidable, he had to counterattack decisively, maintain his calm and rationality, find his weakness, and hit it with one strike. He could also collect his trump cards and use both kindness and power.
Spoiling without theft was a type of novel. There were many novels with the theme of spoiling without theft, such as " Imperial Platform Spoiled without theft,"" Two Lives Spoiled without theft,"" Royal Spoiled without theft," etc. These novels were all about transmigration and rebirth. The plot was full of ups and downs, and it was thrilling. However, the search results did not provide any specific information about the meaning or background of pampering without anti-theft. Therefore, it was impossible to accurately answer the question about pampering but not guarding against theft.
Although a gentleman was usually seen as a person of noble character, it was necessary to maintain a certain level of vigilance in social interactions. On the one hand, there could be hypocrites among gentlemen. Some people appeared modest and polite on the surface, giving people a very good impression, but in fact, they might have ill intentions. They might be hibernating for the time being. Once they gained power, they might do something else. On the other hand, there could be errors in human judgment. In social interactions, one couldn't completely assume that a person was a gentleman based on his initial impression and be defenseless. Moreover, people were complicated and multi-faced. Even a true gentleman might do things that did not conform to his image of a gentleman under certain special circumstances or conflicts of interest. Therefore, one must not have the intention of harming others, but one must be on guard against others. Even when facing people who might be gentlemen, one could still maintain appropriate vigilance.
The common meaning of " A gentleman should also be on guard " in " No way, a gentleman should also be on guard " was that a noble person should be clean and self-loving, act wisely, and avoid situations that might be misunderstood and suspected in advance, so as to avoid suspicion. This saying was often used to warn people to be cautious and avoid suspicion.
The following are some ancient expressions related to a gentleman guarding against a villain: - "A gentleman is poor, but a villain is poor." This sentence shows that a gentleman sticks to his principles even in poverty, while a villain will do whatever he wants when he is poor. This reminds a gentleman to stick to his principles to prevent the villain from unscrupulous behavior. - "A gentleman seeks help from himself, while a villain seeks help from others." It reflected the different attitudes of gentlemen and villains when dealing with things. Gentlemen looked for reasons from themselves more, while villains relied more on others. After a gentleman understood the characteristics of villains, he could guard against villains 'calculations and shirking. - "A gentleman is magnanimous, but a villain is always sad." It reflected that the gentleman was broad-minded, while the villain was narrow-minded and worried about gains and losses. The gentleman understood this difference and could guard against the villain's bad intentions.
A gentleman had many meanings. From one point of view, a gentleman was a person who dared to face his inner desires. For example, a man could face his desire for women and wealth, not just to show his integrity and positive energy in the impression of others, but to be extremely honest with himself. In the literary work " Flying Fox Biography ", there were counterexamples like Tang Pei, who spoke of benevolence, righteousness, and morality on the surface, but was actually full of thieves and prostitutes. In the historical context, such as in Mr. Fujino, the term " gentleman " referred to those self-important, rebellious scholars who served the ruling class such as warlords and politicians.
A gentleman had many meanings. From a moral point of view, a gentleman was someone who dared to face his own desires calmly. He was someone who demanded integrity from himself, not someone who showed it to others. He was not someone who appeared decent and positive in the impression of others, but someone who was extremely honest with himself. In literary works, such as Mr. Fujino," an " upright gentleman " referred to those who served the warlords, politicians, and other ruling classes and claimed to be " upright gentlemen." In the novel " The Legend of the Flying Fox ", there was a virtual character named Tang Pei, nicknamed " The Seven Provinces of Ganlin Hui ". He talked about benevolence, righteousness, and morality, but in fact, he was full of thieves and prostitutes. He was also known as a " gentleman ". The " gentleman " here was an irony. In addition," Gentleman " was also the name of a song performed by Secondhand Rose.