This view was reasonable, but it was not absolute. From some information, reality indeed had many restrictions on dreams. For example, children from ordinary families might not be talented enough. They might not work hard enough when they lacked the motivation of their dreams, and they would have fewer opportunity points. Compared to those who could realize their dreams, they would face more difficulties in reality. This might make it difficult for their dreams to be realized, and they would appear to be vulnerable in the face of reality. However, there were many examples of dreams triumphing over reality. For example, although the probability of winning five million yuan in the two-color ball was extremely low, there were still people who won the lottery to realize their dreams of wealth. Moreover, we can work hard and pursue our dreams with our intelligence instead of being completely defeated by reality. Therefore, although dreams faced challenges in the face of reality, as long as they actively responded, they were not completely helpless.
In real life, there were many situations that made feelings seem vulnerable. For example," When you stand at the top, how many people look up to you; when you fall to the bottom, how many people will belittle you; when you are attracted by benefits, how many people will follow you; when the benefits are cut off, how many people will abandon you ". This sentence reflected that in the face of practical benefits, the relationship based purely on feelings became fragile. Also," When kindness is so much that it's worthless, and others think that your efforts are taken for granted, then put away your kindness. There's nothing wrong with being kind, but it depends on whether the target is a person." It meant that even if you had kindness, it would be difficult to maintain it in a realistic situation where you were not respected. In addition," when you are needed, say all the good things; when you are no longer needed, turn around immediately; when you like you, you are the brightest star; when you hate you, you are the worst scenery " also reflected that feelings were easily ignored in the face of real needs and preferences. Also," Don't tell others everything about yourself. Do you know that some people have their hearts connected in front of them and their brains behind their backs?" This also hinted that in the face of complex interpersonal relationships in reality, communication based on trust and other feelings would not last long.
I recommend 'Crossing the Warring States Period, Facing Bai Qi at the Beginning' by Headmaster Canopy. The male protagonist Zhao Kuo had transmigrated to the Battle of Changping and was facing Baiqi. The supporting characters had their own unique characteristics. The book list was rated three and a half stars. The main character's thinking was a little strange, but she was independent and updated steadily. Since I've fallen in love with you, I won't let go. Who else can I love other than you? The plot was very complicated. The male and female protagonists were entangled in love and hate. The fate of the heirs of the four major corporations changed because of the female protagonist. 'After Ascension, My Dao Companion and I Traversed Back to the Original World', a light novel written by Song of Morning Breeze. The male lead, Yang Yichen, and the female lead, Gongsun Xingzhu, returned to Planet Blue. They were the only female lead in their daily lives. The supporting roles were also very interesting. "Douluo: I'm really not the Ice God!" He was writing in the name of a salted fish. Fantasy type, the male lead Ling Tian is misunderstood, and there's also the clingy female lead Qian Renxue, only female leads don't enter if you don't like. I Am Immortality in the World of Cultivators. In the Xianxia genre, the male protagonist, the Book of Changes, lived forever and cultivated in the prison. Although it was somewhat lacking, its writing was passable and worth reading.
In real life, extramarital affairs often faced many difficulties and were indeed vulnerable. From different cases, extramarital affairs had all kinds of tragic endings. When the first wife chose to pretend to turn a blind eye, she looked calm on the surface, but once the truth was exposed, this delicate balance would be broken. For example, in some cases, the husband had been cheating for many years and had an illegitimate child. When the mistress asked for the property and came to the door, the extramarital affair was completely exposed. In fact, the original wife was not unaware, but she did not want to poke the window paper. When a man married a mistress, his life after marriage might be very painful. A male client was bewitched by the mistress 'disguise. After marriage, the mistress completely changed. She controlled and tortured the man in terms of money, body, time, face, and other aspects. The man wanted a divorce but was afraid of losing face. If he didn't divorce, his days would be torturous. When a man coaxed both sides, it often ended up in a mess. For example, some men cheated on both sides. After the mistress gave birth to a child, she thought that she could have both sides. However, after the man decided to divorce when the child went to university and the mistress took over, because of the many years of energy spent on emotional entanglements, his career did not improve. Once he encountered a financial crisis, the mistress would leave with the child. When the man looked for his ex-wife again, he was also rejected, and finally ended up alone. There were also extramarital affairs from a woman's point of view. A woman who fell into an extramarital affair for a moment of novelty might pay a heavy price and cause the family to break down. A woman who had an extramarital affair with a friend because of the death of her husband would give up friendship and family for so-called love and eventually fail in their relationship. Even if the extramarital affair lasted for five years, it would end because the novelty disappeared and the contradictions increased. In the development of extramarital affairs, from the initial ambiguous period, it had gradually deviated from the normal emotional relationship track. As the ambiguous period moved to the fantasy stage, more problems would arise. In short, under the impact of various factors in reality, extramarital affairs were difficult to maintain stability and long-term, and they seemed to be vulnerable.
From the perspective of some information, love was indeed vulnerable in the face of reality. For example, some couples easily ended their relationship for many years due to realistic factors such as the emergence of a better person, economic conditions, family background, etc. In some marriages, love was also very fragile when faced with practical problems such as childbirth and family status. For example, because the woman had a habitual abortion, the man and his family chose to divorce. However, there were also different views that love was not a simple physical reaction or emotional dependence, but a deeper emotional connection. True love was a deep emotional connection that required the joint efforts and management of both parties. The story of the bride making up for the groom's father's absence at the wedding scene reflected the depth of love. Therefore, it could not be said that love was always vulnerable in the face of reality.
Here are some recommendations for novels about reality and dreams: 1. " Golden Dust Beauty ": This novel described the overlapping of dreams and reality, as well as the love and hatred between the male and female protagonists. 2. " Futurology Conference ": Although this book is a science fiction novel, the content involves illusions and reality. 3. Dreamscape Films: This fantasy-alternative fantasy novel tells the story of a company that can realize all the dreams that people can't try in reality. 4. [Master Inception: This fantasy novel tells the story of how the power of dreams can be used as one wishes. Cultivating dreams is omnipotent.] 5. " Fear of Dreams ": This mystery detective and mysterious cultural novel tells the story of the nervous breakdown between dreams and reality, exploring the terrifying world of dreams. These novels cover the intertwining relationship between dreams and reality. I hope you will like one or more of them.
Dream and Reality Dream and reality were like two weights on both ends of the scale. They balanced each other and were related to each other. On the stage of life, there was an endless relationship between them. Dreams were the bright stars in one's heart. It originated from the yearning and pursuit of a better life. Dreams are like lighthouses, guiding us forward in the vast sea of life. It was a powerful spiritual force that could stimulate people's unlimited potential. Since ancient times, countless people with lofty ideals had shone because of their dreams. Li Bai, in the reality of his bumpy career and disputes of interests, took poetry as his dream. Under the predicament of "difficult road", he could still stick to his dream with a heroic attitude of "laughing out of the door, how can we be people of Penghao". His poetry became a treasure in the treasure house of Chinese culture. After Sima Qian suffered the cruel reality of castration, he was determined to complete the Records of the Historian in prison. The power of dreams allowed him to transcend the pain of his body. This great work also illuminated the long river of history. However, reality was the foundation and soil of dreams. Reality was like the earth. Although there were mountains and rivers, it was the support of all living things. It was an objective world that contained the trivialities, difficulties, and challenges of life. A dream without the support of reality was like a castle in the air. It looked beautiful but could not last long. In real life, many young people had dreams but were unwilling to work hard. In the end, they could only let their dreams become bubbles. For example, some children from ordinary families dreamed of engaging in some glamorous but difficult careers when they applied for college. However, they ignored factors such as their talent, hard work, and the employment pressure of the real society. This kind of dream was often difficult to achieve. Dreams and reality were mutually reinforcing. The cruelty of reality could temper dreams and make them more tenacious. When we encounter setbacks in reality, dreams will become the source of motivation for us to cheer up again. Just like Wu Yishu, in today's impetuous social reality, she had the dream of staying away from impetuousness and savoring poetry and painting. Through her own efforts, she satisfied the modern people's imagination of ancient talented women; Dong Qing used "The Lang Reader" as the carrier of her dream in the real environment where social media programs lacked content, bringing a clear stream to the impetuous world. On the contrary, dreams could also change reality. Those who constantly fought for their ideals used their own efforts to build a bridge between reality and dreams, gradually turning their dreams into reality. In the new era, we should view the relationship between dreams and reality correctly. He could not give up on his dream because of the cruelty of reality, nor could he indulge in his dream and ignore reality. We must base ourselves on reality, rationally analyze our own conditions and environment, and through tireless efforts, let our dreams take root and sprout in the soil of reality, thrive, and finally bloom into beautiful flowers. Only in this way can we write our own wonderful life chapters in the blend of dreams and reality.
Here are some examples of dreams and reality: ** I. Success stories of persisting in dreams and overcoming practical difficulties ** 1. ** Nobel Prize ** - Nobel's journey in researching the nitrogen was fraught with danger. In an explosive experiment, the laboratory was blown up, and five assistants were sacrificed. The youngest brother was not spared. However, he was not intimidated by the cruel blow of reality and remained unyielding. He moved the laboratory to the boat in the suburban lake to continue his experiments. Finally, he discovered mercury fulminate, successfully solved the problem of explosive detonation, and invented the detonator. This was a major breakthrough in his scientific path. 2. [Gan Xiangwei] - Gan Xiangwei came from a remote mountain village in the Dabie Mountains. He lost his father when he was young and his family was poor. He gave up the opportunity to study in the county high school. Later, he became a security guard at the west gate of Peking University, but he had a dream of studying. After work, he sneaked into the classroom, listened to lectures, and went to the library. In 2008, he took the college entrance examination for adults and became an undergraduate student in the Chinese Department of Peking University's adult education college with a score 60 points higher than the admission score. He began to work part-time. He insisted on writing during his time at Peking University. In 2012, he published Standing Up at Peking University, which was praised as the "first security guard in China to publish a book." 3. ** Yang Shaoping ** - Yang Shaoping was born in a poor family in Yunnan. His father was sick and his mother was paralyzed in bed. During the day, he worked as a waiter at the Dai restaurant at the south gate of Peking University. At night, he worked as a self-study student in the classroom of Peking University. In order to realize his dream of being a lawyer, after eight years of hard work, he successfully passed the national judicial examination and took a big step towards his dream. ** 2. An example of a dream being temporarily compromised due to the pressure of reality ** - Many students from ordinary families faced realistic pressure when it came to choosing a job after graduating from university. They might be advised to give up their dream major and choose a good job major so that they could find a job and earn money as soon as possible after graduation. This was because children from ordinary families might not have strong talent, and they might not have enough hard work without the support of their dreams. There were relatively few opportunities after graduation, so in the face of reality, some people would temporarily put their dreams aside. ** 3. A case of regret due to improper handling of dreams and reality ** 1. Ruan Ji and Ji Kang - Ruan Ji and Ji Kang were both celebrities in the Wei and Jin Dynasties. Ruan Ji lost his father when he was three years old. His family was not rich but he was versatile. When his mother passed away, he seemed indifferent on the surface, but after playing chess, he drank and cried and vomited blood. In order to avoid political struggles, he adopted an official and reclusive attitude. In addition to being familiar with the classics, Ji Kang was also very accomplished in music, calligraphy, writing, and other aspects. He was upright and unyielding and offended the powerful. Because of his good friend Lu An's matter, he was implicated and imprisoned and died unjustly. One of them escaped from reality, while the other lived completely in reality. Neither of them could achieve the ideal balance between their dreams and reality, leaving people with endless sadness. ** 4. An example of the perfect combination of dream and reality ** 1. ** Shen Congwen ** - Shen Congwen joined the army at the age of 14 and traveled to the border areas of Hunan, Sichuan and Guizhou. Later, he began to write literature. Although he lived in a hypocritical, selfish, and indifferent city, he was obsessed with the beauty of human nature and believed that " beauty lies in life." His writing style tended towards romanticism, requiring the novel to have a poetic effect, integrating realism, dreams, and symbolism. His life and creation were perfect examples of the combination of dreams and reality. 2. ** Zhang Yunhe ** - Zhang Yunhe had the reputation of being a "white-haired talented woman". He was good at poetry, calligraphy, rhythm, and Kunqu opera. Her life was also a model of dreams and reality, and it was novel and unconventional.
There were a few novels that could be recommended, including Reborn Youth Creating Dreams, Morning Begins at Noon, and Dreams Come True. These novels all involved the theme of turning ideals into reality, which could bring inspiration and encouragement to the readers. However, due to the limited information in the search results, it was impossible to provide more recommendations for related novels.
There were a few novels that could be recommended, including Reborn Youth Creating Dreams, Morning Begins at Noon, and Dreams Come True. These novels all involved the theme of turning ideals into reality, which could bring inspiration and encouragement to the readers. However, due to the limited information in the search results, it was impossible to provide more recommendations for related novels.
There were a few novels that could be recommended, including Reborn Youth Creating Dreams, Morning Begins at Noon, and Dreams Come True. These novels all involved the theme of turning ideals into reality, which could bring inspiration and encouragement to the readers. However, due to the limited information in the search results, it was impossible to provide more recommendations for related novels.