Often in these stories, a shared experience or a common enemy could be the catalyst. Say, they both face a new dark threat in the wizarding world. Working together against it, Harry would get to know Snape better on a personal level. He might start to respect Snape's knowledge and skills, which could then grow into an attachment. Snape, on the other hand, might start to see Harry not just as James Potter's son but as an individual worthy of his regard, and this mutual shift in perception would deepen their bond.
Well, it could start with Harry realizing that Snape's actions, though often harsh, were sometimes driven by a deeper purpose. Maybe he discovers Snape's past and starts to see him in a new light. This new understanding could gradually turn into an attachment as Harry sees the complexity of Snape's character.
In such fanfiction, their relationship might develop when Harry begins to notice Snape's unspoken sacrifices. For instance, Snape's protection of him throughout the years. This could make Harry curious and lead to him getting closer to Snape, slowly forming an attachment as he uncovers more about Snape's true nature.
As time goes on, Snape might start to open up a bit more to Harry about his past and his reasons for protecting him. This could lead to a more understanding and even a friendship - like relationship between them. For example, Snape could share stories about Harry's mother, which would make Harry feel closer to him.
As the story progresses, they might start to work together more closely. Snape could be teaching Harry some advanced magic that no one else knows, and through this process, they build a bond. Harry begins to understand Snape's past better and realizes that they have more in common than he thought, like their love for Lily Potter in different ways.
In fanfiction, their relationship can develop in many ways. Sometimes it starts with Harry being suspicious of Snape as in the original books, but then Snape shows his selfless side. For example, he might save Harry from a dark spell and that starts to change Harry's view.
At first, their relationship is likely to be very tense. Harry is used to seeing Snape as an enemy. But as Snape starts to mentor him, Harry begins to see Snape's knowledge and skills. Snape, on the other hand, might start to see Harry as more than just James Potter's son. As time goes on, they develop a mutual respect. Harry respects Snape's magical abilities and Snape respects Harry's determination. Eventually, they could become something like a reluctant teacher - student duo that also has elements of a father - son relationship, especially considering Snape's love for Harry's mother.
One common theme is redemption. Snape's actions that were once seen as mean or spiteful are re - evaluated, and Harry plays a part in this redemption process which leads to their attachment. Another theme could be the discovery of hidden loyalties. Harry finding out about Snape's true allegiance to Dumbledore and the wizarding world at large makes him view Snape differently and form an attachment.
The development could also be due to the way the author writes Snape's backstory in the fanfic. If the author delves deeper into Snape's past, his difficult childhood, and his love for Harry's mother, Harry might start to understand Snape better. This understanding leads to admiration as Harry realizes that Snape is not just the strict and seemingly cruel professor he thought he was.
At first, Harry might be a bit annoyed by Dobby's antics. But as the story progresses in the fanfiction, he could notice Dobby's good intentions. Dobby's eagerness to serve and protect Harry could touch Harry's heart. Maybe Dobby saves Harry from a particularly dangerous situation that makes Harry see Dobby in a whole new light. Harry then starts to admire Dobby's tenacity. He may also be intrigued by Dobby's strange habits, like his obsession with odd - looking socks. This new - found admiration could lead to Harry becoming a big fan of Dobby.
Snape's relationship with Harry could become more complex. He might start to see Harry as more than just Lily's son. As headmaster, he has to ensure Harry's safety and development. This could lead to some awkward but necessary conversations between them. Snape may also use Harry as an example to show the other students what it means to be brave and stand up against evil, which in turn makes Harry see Snape in a different light.
At first, it's likely to be very tense. Snape has always had a grudge against Harry because of his father. But as they live together, they start to see each other's true selves. Harry might see Snape's vulnerability and intelligence, while Snape might see Harry's courage and determination that are different from James's arrogance.
Often, it starts with intense dislike. Snape is constantly critical of Harry in class, deducting points for the slightest mistakes. Harry, in turn, sees Snape as a bully. As the story progresses, there might be small moments of grudging respect, like when Harry realizes Snape's intelligence in potions, but the overall hatred remains for a long time.