You could firmly tell the person that their request is inappropriate and that you expect them to respect your privacy. For example, say 'That's a very private thing, and I'm not comfortable with that idea at all. Please don't ask such things again.'
A straightforward 'No' is a good start. Then make it clear that this is a very private matter and not something to be shared in that way.
You should firmly say no. Your privacy is important and this is not a normal or acceptable request.
This is completely inappropriate behavior. Watching someone in such a private and personal act is a violation of privacy and basic social norms.
No, it's not appropriate at all. Peeing is a very private bodily function, and asking someone to watch is a violation of personal privacy and social norms.
Politely suggest some positive and educational alternatives. Say something like 'I can't teach that story, but I can recommend some great children's books full of positive values.' This way, you can shift the focus to something more appropriate.
First, make it clear that the request is unacceptable. You can say, 'That's not something that's okay to ask about. Everyone's body is their own private thing.' Then, depending on the situation, you might want to talk to an appropriate adult, like a parent or guardian, about the incident to ensure that she is taught the right values regarding privacy and appropriate behavior.
First, you must immediately reject the request as it is inappropriate. Then, try to have an open and honest conversation with your wife. Explain to her that this goes against your values and the boundaries of a healthy relationship. It could be that she is influenced by something abnormal or she has some misunderstandings. If the situation persists or gets worse, seeking professional help, like relationship counseling, might be a good option. Because in a normal relationship, both parties should respect each other's dignity and boundaries.
She simply refused. She said that I should focus more on my studies rather than new dresses.
He has several options. Firstly, he should immediately communicate that he doesn't want to participate. If communication fails, he can remove himself from the situation physically. He may also want to talk to a trusted friend or family member about what's going on. This can help him get support and advice on how to handle the situation. In a more serious case, if it's a pattern of behavior, he could even consider getting professional help or reporting the behavior if it's considered inappropriate or unethical.
This is an extremely awkward and inappropriate situation. It goes against the norms of a healthy family relationship. You need to communicate your discomfort clearly. You can say 'Mom, this is not a topic that is suitable for discussion between us. Our conversations should be positive and appropriate. I hope this never comes up again.' If possible, try to distance yourself from such inappropriate conversations in the future and focus on building a more appropriate and healthy relationship.
He could simply accept her apology and tell her that it's all in the past. This would be a very straightforward and kind response if he believes that she is truly sorry for whatever she has done.