He can communicate openly with her. Let her know how her actions make him feel. Maybe she doesn't realize the impact of her behavior.
The husband should first stay calm. Reacting impulsively might make the situation worse. He could then set clear boundaries. For example, he can say that he won't tolerate certain types of humiliating remarks. Also, he might suggest couples counseling if the problem persists, as a professional can help them work through their issues.
The husband could start taking on more responsibilities independently. Show her that he is capable. For instance, if she doesn't trust him with cooking, he can cook a great meal on his own and prove his competence. He can also set boundaries. If she tries to infantilize him in public, he can firmly but politely say that he can handle things himself. This way, he asserts his adulthood in the relationship.
He can communicate his feelings directly to her. For example, he can say 'I felt really bad when you made fun of me in front of others.' Just being honest about his emotions.
First, they need to have open and honest communication. The husband should explain why he had such a request, which might be related to some personal insecurities or misunderstandings. Then, they should seek professional help, like seeing a relationship counselor. The counselor can guide them to re - establish healthy relationship patterns and respect for each other.
In some fictional tales, the husband could try to find out if there are any external factors influencing his wife's behavior. He might look into if there's someone else putting ideas in her head or if there are any cultural or family pressures that are causing this. By understanding the root cause, he can then work towards a solution.
First, he should communicate openly and non - judgmentally. Ask her how she's feeling and what might be wrong. He can also try to create a more romantic and relaxing atmosphere at home, like having a candle - lit dinner or a warm bath together. Another thing is to focus on building emotional intimacy, for example, by sharing his feelings more often.
He can start by having an honest conversation with her. Let her know how her flirting makes him feel.
One way to turn it positive is to make it about forgiveness and understanding. The husband could forgive the wife for her actions that led to his humiliation. They could communicate better and the 'bull' could be transformed into a symbol of a challenge they overcame together as a couple. In this new narrative, the humiliation becomes a stepping stone to a stronger relationship.
He can try to relieve her stress. Maybe plan a relaxing weekend away, do more of the household chores to give her some free time, or arrange for a babysitter so she can have some time to herself. By reducing her stress levels, it might increase her willingness in sexual matters.
The husband might also decide to take some time away from the situation. He could go on a trip or stay with a friend for a while. During this time, he can think about his own needs and values. And then come back and make a more rational decision on how to deal with his wife and the situation she has created.
Jealousy can also play a part. For example, if she sees her husband getting a lot of attention from other women, she might try to put him down in front of others to make herself feel better. Another possible reason is that she has her own insecurities. Maybe she doesn't feel good about herself, so she tries to make her husband look bad to boost her own ego.