There was a relationship where the BPD individual had a fear of abandonment. So, they would try to control every aspect of their partner's life. If the partner wanted to go out with friends, the BPD person would make them feel guilty, saying things like 'You don't love me if you leave me alone'. This controlling behavior eventually drove the partner away and ended the relationship in a very sad and chaotic way.
One horror story could be about a person with BPD who had extreme mood swings. In a matter of minutes, they could go from being calm and friendly to screaming in anger at their loved ones. Their partner never knew what would set them off, and it created a very tense and unpredictable living situation.
Communication is key. Try to have calm, honest conversations with your partner about how their behavior affects you. For example, if they have sudden outbursts, say 'When you scream like that, it scares me and makes me feel like I can't talk to you'.
One example is in a mobile game where a player thought they were just buying a one - time cool - looking weapon for a few dollars. But later, they found out it was part of a subscription - like system where they were being charged every week without realizing it clearly at first. It was really a horror story for their wallet.
One diarrhea horror story is when I was on a long road trip. There were very few rest stops around. Suddenly, I got a really bad stomachache and diarrhea hit me hard. I was sweating and praying that we would find a place soon. It was so uncomfortable and embarrassing as I was with friends.
There are quite a few trampoline horror stories. For example, some trampolines have a net around them to prevent falls. But in one case, a child got tangled in the net in a very bad way. The child panicked and in the struggle, got a minor head injury. Also, there have been cases where trampolines with worn - out springs have caused unexpected bounces. A person could be jumping normally and then suddenly be launched much higher than expected due to a faulty spring, leading to a hard fall and potential fractures.
There have been stories about facial recognition systems in some stores. A customer was wrongly identified as a shoplifter due to a glitch in the facial recognition software. The store security confronted the innocent customer in a very public and embarrassing way, causing a great deal of distress to the person. This shows how biometrics can go wrong and have a negative impact on people's lives.
In some pledgeships, new members are subjected to intense isolation. For instance, they might be locked in a small, dark room for hours as part of some 'initiation' process. This not only causes extreme psychological distress but can also be very dangerous if something were to happen to them while they were locked away, like a medical emergency.
Well, there was a situation where an elderly couple owned a small cottage. They were away for a few months due to health reasons. Squatters got in and made it a mess. They painted the walls with graffiti, broke some of the windows, and left a lot of trash everywhere. It was a real horror for the couple when they returned. And then there was a story about a commercial property. Squatters moved in and set up an illegal business operation there without any permission, causing all sorts of legal headaches for the owner.
One example could be in the job market. A candidate might accept a job offer, but then renege at the last minute. This leaves the employer in a lurch as they may have already turned down other potential hires. They might have also made arrangements like setting up a workspace, ordering equipment, etc. for the new hire.
There are cases where financial abuse occurs in a relationship. For instance, one partner controls all the money, not allowing the other to have access to funds for basic needs like buying food or clothes. They might also run up debts in the other's name without permission. This is a very sad form of relationship abuse as it leaves the victim feeling powerless and trapped.