We can completely change the focus. Instead of having such possessive and disrespectful ideas, we can think about sharing positive qualities. For example, if someone has great leadership skills ('big' in a positive sense), they can inspire and help others, including women, to achieve their goals.
One way is to think about it in terms of education and empowerment. If a man has a lot of knowledge or skills ('big' in the sense of abundance), he can share it with women and help them become more independent and strong. This is a positive and respectful way to interact with others rather than having the improper concept.
First, we can redefine the 'big sister' role as a mentor or a role model. For example, she could be a big sister who is passionate about her career or a hobby, like painting or writing. This way, the 'horny' (inappropriate connotation) is replaced with positive energy and enthusiasm.
We can focus on the journey of self - discovery and acceptance. For example, a character who is going through gender transformation can learn to accept themselves, face challenges from society, and finally find their true identity and happiness. It can be about the power of being true to oneself.
We can focus on the 'dawn' aspect. Dawn is a time of new beginnings, so we could create a story about a character starting a new chapter in their life at dawn. Maybe they are making a resolution, or embarking on a new adventure.
We can focus on the emotional and intellectual connection. For instance, in real - life relationships, people often fall in love because they have great conversations, share the same values and can support each other. This is a far more positive and respectful way of looking at relationships than any vulgar idea.
We can focus on the stories of recovery. For example, tell about a patient who overcomes their mental illness with the help of the dedicated staff in the asylum. Show how the asylum becomes a place of hope and transformation.
The simplest way is to completely discard the inappropriate part. For example, we can just use 'Anko's Adventure' which is positive and engaging.
One way could be to turn it into a humorous misunderstanding. Maybe Naruto accidentally bumps into Ino and Sakura in class and it looks like something else for a moment, but then they all laugh it off and continue with their studies or ninja training.
One way is to focus on the journey of self - discovery. If a straight - identified person discovers they have same - sex attractions, it can be about them coming to terms with their true self in a positive way, like accepting their identity without shame.
One way is to rewrite the story from a different perspective. Instead of the wolf being the villain, he could be a misunderstood character. Maybe he was just hungry and didn't know how to communicate properly. The pigs could teach him about sharing food and then they all become friends, living together in harmony in the forest.
We can focus on the 'gay' part and make it about a young gay teen's journey of self - acceptance. For example, the story could be about a young gay boy who is initially afraid to come out to his friends and family. Through a series of events, like meeting a supportive mentor or making new friends who are also part of the LGBTQ+ community, he gradually gains the confidence to be true to himself. This has nothing to do with the inappropriate 'facesit' and focuses on positive character development.