There might be a certain nervousness or excitement in your interactions. For example, when you touch accidentally, there could be a jolt of electricity or a moment of hesitation that's not typical in a normal friendship. And if you find yourselves constantly thinking about each other in a more than just friendly way, that's also a sign of potential sexual tension.
Flirting is another big sign. Teasing each other in a more suggestive way, using double - entendres, or complimenting each other's appearance in a more sexualized manner can all point to sexual tension between friends. It's important to note that normal friendly banter is different from this kind of flirting.
Avoid situations that might increase the tension. For example, if being alone in a certain place makes it worse, don't put yourselves in that situation. You can also focus on other aspects of your friendship, like common hobbies or mutual friends, to shift the focus away from the sexual tension.
By focusing on shared hobbies and interests. If they are always engaged in activities they both love, like playing a sport or painting, their minds are occupied with positive things and not sexual tension. Also, respecting personal space is crucial. Each friend should have their own time and space to do their own things without feeling pressured.
Authors often use physical proximity. For instance, when the two friends are forced to share a small space like a tent during a camping trip. Another way is through lingering glances. When their eyes meet and hold for a little too long, it creates sexual tension.
One major problem is that it goes against the age - appropriate nature of the 'Harry Potter' series. Hermione is a minor for a large part of the story, and Sirius is an adult. This kind of relationship dynamic in a sexual - tension context is inappropriate.
One example could be the relationship between Vincent Vega and Mia Wallace. Their interactions at the diner and later at Jack Rabbit Slim's are filled with a certain sexual tension. The way they look at each other, their flirtatious banter, and the overall charged atmosphere between them.
When there is secrecy or shame involved in sexual matters within the marriage. If a husband has certain behaviors that he hides from his wife or vice versa, it shows that something is not right. Additionally, if sexual activities are causing emotional distress like depression or low self - esteem in either partner, it's a sign of an unhealthy relationship. For instance, if a wife feels degraded due to her husband's actions during sex, it's a clear indication of trouble.
You can start by creating characters with hidden desires and unfulfilled longings. Let their attraction simmer beneath the surface and build anticipation.
There's also 'Hermione's Hidden Feelings'. This story delves into how Hermione tries to suppress her growing sexual tension towards a particular character. It's well - written, with detailed descriptions of her internal struggle.
One appropriate way is through sincere communication. Sharing your desires and fantasies in a respectful way can create a sense of anticipation. Also, physical closeness like gentle caresses, holding hands, and long hugs can build sexual tension. Another way is by creating a romantic atmosphere, for example, having a candlelit dinner or a relaxing bath together.
There's 'Tension in the Tower' that focuses on the relationship between Draco and Ginny. It uses their long - standing rivalry to fuel a very interesting kind of sexual tension. The author cleverly writes their interactions in a way that makes the reader anticipate more.