She can be positive by respecting his space and decisions. For example, if he has a different career choice, she can support him instead of interfering.
By being kind and inclusive, like inviting him to family events and making sure he feels part of the family. For instance, when there is a family reunion, she can make sure he is involved in all the activities and conversations, which helps build a strong family bond.
A mother - in - law can also show interest in his hobbies. Say he likes fishing, she could ask him about his fishing trips and experiences. This would make him feel more accepted in the family.
Start with small acts of kindness. Bring her a cup of tea when she's tired or give her a small gift on her birthday. These simple things can make her feel special.
Sharing hobbies or interests can also be great. If they both like fishing, they could go on fishing trips together. It gives them a chance to relax and get to know each other better outside of the family setting. This helps in building a friendly and positive relationship.
Communication is key. They should have regular conversations about various topics like work, hobbies, and family plans. For example, having a chat over coffee every Sunday morning.
There are also free e - book platforms that offer family relationship - themed books for free sometimes. You might be able to find some stories about mother - in - law and son - in - law in them. Additionally, some online magazines focused on family and relationships could be a good source.
If you want to read some stories about your son-in-law and mother-in-law, I am honored to recommend the following novels to you: [Guye is a happy pulse]: The story of a woman who transmigrated and became a happy husband. With the help of her mother-in-law and aunt, she became a handsome young man who was satisfied with her wishes. " My Family's Son-in-law ": A son-in-law with the desire to explore the heart of the world finds himself and love under the care of his mother-in-law and maid. " The Most Upright Son-in-law in History ": A story of an upright and kind man who chose to be with his fiancée's family after transmigrating, facing the challenges and disdain of his fiancée. I hope the above novels can meet your needs. If you like them, you may as well go and take a look!
" Marrying the Wrong Bride " is an ancient romance novel written by the author, Xue Yalian. The general plot of this novel is as follows: The sisters got married on the same day. The younger sister married the top scholar, but the older sister married a silly boy. Everyone knew the result, but the two sisters walked two completely different paths. The elder sister cured her silly husband, and she was very surprised that her silly husband was not simple! ---------------------------- " Pretty Woman in Charge: A Tsundere Husband Loves Her Door " was an ancient romance novel written by the author, Wanqi Nuannuan. The general plot of this novel was: The engagement was broken off as soon as Lan Hua transmigrated. How could he tolerate such a thing? He had to fight. The men on the blind date were all in their seventies or eighties. Her neighbors 'parents all advised her to marry a man! I'm twenty years old and as beautiful as a flower. If you want me to marry you, I'll marry you. How shameless is that? It was her fault for having a beautiful butt and chest. Everyone said that she was ugly and knew that flat-chested was your favorite. And Prince Charming Gou Dan, we said we were going to be pure together, why did it become like this now… "Didn't you say you wouldn't touch me? Are we purely together?" " We're a radish and a pit. I love you, a pit, so let's be together!" Orchid felt that since they all thought she was ugly, she would seduce a male god and farm together to make a fortune. ---------------------------- " Bringing a Foolish Husband to Farm " was an ancient romance novel written by the author, Dan Zhuzhi. The general plot of this novel was: Official Xu's family had three daughters. They were smart and beautiful. Yuan Niang, Yu Niang, and Jiao Niang. Each of them was stronger than the other. The three sisters loved each other and were polite. The Xu family's mistress, Madam Ji, and the magistrate's wife are bound by marriage. Normally, marriage should be arranged according to seniority, but the old madam of the Wang family was ill and needed to celebrate. The marriage could not be delayed. However, the marriage contract did not specify which daughter it was. Looking at the three beautiful children, Mother Xu could not make a decision. Mother Xu: " The young master of the Wang family is eighteen years old. Mother Yuan, you are sixteen...?" "Mother, as the elder sister, I should be humble. It's better for Yu Niang!" Yu Niang: " Mother, there's Eldest Sister above and Jiao Niang below. No matter what, I can't snatch this good marriage!" "Jiao Niang, you're fourteen this year…" "It's all up to Mother!" Jiao Niang agreed shyly! "Miss, Miss!" The servant girl Ke 'er walked around the courtyard and came back with a livid face." Miss, Eldest Miss and Second Miss are treating you like a fool. What courtesy? Although the Wang family is a magistrate, their stepmother is vicious. Moreover, the son-in-law is a fool!" "A fool with a fool, it's perfect!" Jiao Niang smiled faintly. After entering the prefect's house, Xu's mother made things difficult for her. Her identity as the young lady and the third daughter of the Xu family was worthless. She was thrown into the manor with the silly son-in-law before she returned to the house. Without money or food, they could only make it themselves. Jiao Niang brought her husband to farm! Needless to say, the silly man had the strength to lift it! It was one thing for the Wang family to bully him, but when he returned to his mother's home, he was humiliated by his two brothers-in-law. Without any food or clothing, the two brothers-in-law took the initiative to give it to him! Jiao Niang was puzzled,[I'm a transmigrator, but my silly husband is black-bellied no matter how I look at him.] ---------------------------- " Husband Don't Run: Domineering Little Female Bandit " was a fantasy romance novel written by the author, Orchid Pig. The general plot of this novel was: For the sake of her family, she was forced to marry the Third Young Master of the Prefect's family, but who knew that this Third Young Master was not favored. From then on, he had to worry about his family, state, and Jianghu matters! Who would have thought that the little Langjun was not only skilled in martial arts, but also had an extremely powerful background. "You're not worthy of being my daughter-in-law." She snorted,"I don't care." She left with the little bun in her stomach. The days were like you chasing me and I running away… "Hey! The auntie in front let go of that handsome young man! It's just right for him to be the father of the baby in my stomach..." ---------------------------- " Little Master of the Fields " was an ancient romance novel written by the author, Orchid Pig. The general plot of this novel was: Although she was an adopted daughter, as the eldest sister in the family, she had only wanted to raise her younger brother. However, the heavens did not fulfill her wishes. It was fine if the scholar had taken a fancy to her, but how could she have accidentally saved a prince and even saved a city? Alright, alright! This is not a problem. What did that old man say? Do you know where my father is? No way, his biological father was an exiled criminal… ---------------------------- " The Cute Baby is Making Trouble " was an ancient romance novel written by the author, Rain Falling Green Lotus. The general plot of this novel was: When a certain woman transmigrated, the time tunnels turned around and she was thrown into a woman who was nursing a child and was alone in an empty room. [Mother: Baby, I'll give you a nice name.] Cute Baby: What? Mother: I heard that your father's name is Chuyi, then you'll be called Shiwu. [Cute Baby: Fifteen sounds too bad. I want to be sixteen.] [Mother: Can you write six words?] Can you write? Meng Bao shook her head with a dumbfounded face, but I don't know how to write five words either. Mother: Don't be afraid, I'll teach you. A certain woman pulled a man and cried as she hit him." Wow, you heartless thing. I gave birth to your children for you. I took care of the house for you. I worked hard for you. You actually didn't come back for five years. Five years…" A certain man: Wifey, you've got the wrong person. I'm your husband. [Woman: Wow, handsome guy…] A certain man,"Wife, calm down, calm down…" A certain daughter: Husband, how do you write these two words… The cute baby stood in a corner of the house and pointed at his parents while shouting. [Cute Baby: My lady, the wind is too strong in the nest. It's so cold.] [Mother: The house is too small. What's wrong with making do with it?] Cute Baby: Little Daddy sleeps outside. A certain man,[Baby, are you really my biological son?] A certain mother was furious,"If it's not your biological child, did it fall from the tree?" ---------------------------- The Spring of the Ancient Leftover Women was an ancient romance novel written by the author, Short Eared Cat. The general plot of the novel was: She was clearly a delicate flower, but she was actually crowned with the hat of an ancient leftover woman. Her brother wanted to sell her, and her sister-in-law wanted to force her. Her mother alone could not withstand the two of them. No! She would rather be a stepmother than a concubine! Little kid, since you've already called me mother, why don't you let your father marry me? Um, what's your father's surname? ---------------------------- " Tough Farmer Girl " was an ancient romance novel written by Nalan Xiaoxi. The general plot of this novel was: Once he passed through the farmhouse, he was poor. Two heart-warming brothers, a smart girl, and a simple and honest bun girl were given for free. She vowed to change the situation and make a fortune. Who knew that there would be a lot of high-quality relatives. One would steal an egg today, one would occupy a house tomorrow, and the next… Lin Poxue sneered.'I'm a vicious woman and a shrew. Who am I afraid of? I'll transform into Ultraman and fight a monster every day.' Spit out what you ate and return what you took. His days were good, but his reputation was bad. His mother was worried. "Mother, don't be afraid. I'll find you a live-in son-in-law some other day…" Lin Bixue smiled proudly. Courtship: "The reeds are green, the white dew is frost. The so-called Yiren is on the other side of the water…" " You're already in heat so early in the morning. You're just a poor scholar, and you still want to have a sweetheart…" A certain woman could not help but mock him, and her hand even grabbed a certain man's collar. " Boss, there is a beauty in the book…" Before he could finish, he could not help but say in shock," Do not see, do not hear, do not touch, men and women should not touch each other. Boss, you are trying to ruin my innocence…Then I will be yours in the future." A glimmer of light flashed in the corner of his eyes. " Bang!" A certain man's eyes turned black. A certain woman coolly said," Assault your head. I don't like you…" The man's face twitched… This was a novel about a vicious woman who was reborn and fought with her relatives ruthlessly. ---------------------------- " An Ugly Woman's Home Has a Beautiful Husband " was an ancient romance novel written by the author, Mo Tongtong. The general plot of this novel was: Mo Lan had been reborn, but she still only had a sister. There are vicious parents above, and wicked brothers and sisters-in-law below. What was that? He even wanted her to marry him! It was absolutely impossible… But... He seemed to treat her pretty well… No, absolutely not… A man: My wife, I can go out of the hall and enter the kitchen. [A certain woman: Think about it…] ---------------------------- " The Substitute Wife Is Mute " was a modern romance novel written by the author Mo Mo. The general plot of this novel was: Her grandmother was seriously ill, and her father used this threat to force Wen Xian to marry into the Huo Family. There was no wedding, no guests, and Wen Xian was just a mute bride who couldn't be seen on the stage.
Yes, there are. Some personal blogs that focus on family dynamics often have stories about mother - in - law and son - in - law relationships. These blogs are usually free to access. For example, there are bloggers who write about their own family experiences, which may include how they get along with their mother - in - law or son - in - law.
The main character was a live-in son-in-law. His mother-in-law had three daughters, namely the eldest daughter, the second daughter, and the third daughter. The protagonist married a wife and the wife had a daughter, who was the protagonist's cousin. His mother-in-law had three daughters who were all very smart and outstanding, but had different personalities. The eldest daughter was arrogant, the second daughter was gentle and considerate, and the third daughter was introverted and taciturn. After the protagonist visited, he became good friends with his mother-in-law and eldest daughter. With the help of his eldest daughter, the protagonist gradually gained his career and status. The second daughter had a special relationship with the protagonist, but because of her identity and the protagonist's wife, the two could not be together. The protagonist and his wife had been working hard to make their family happier and more harmonious. The eldest daughter also began to have a deeper understanding of her arrogance and began to reflect on her own behavior because of the protagonist's efforts and success. In the end, the protagonist and his wife successfully resolved the internal conflicts in the family and worked hard for the future of the family with the eldest daughter and the second daughter.
Communication is key. They should talk openly about their expectations, likes, and dislikes. For example, if the daughter - in - law has a different way of cooking, they can discuss how to incorporate both styles.
In a family, the mother - in - law was an artist. When her daughter - in - law showed an interest in painting, she took her under her wing. They went to art galleries together, painted side by side, and even held a small joint exhibition in their local community center. This not only strengthened their relationship but also brought the whole family closer as they all supported their art - related activities.