Try to focus more on asking questions to others. When you are more interested in their stories, you'll be less likely to tell your own. For example, instead of saying 'I had a great trip last week', ask 'Have you had any interesting trips lately?'
One effective way is to build a reputation for being private. Let people know that you value your personal stories and don't want them spread around. If someone still tries to tell an embarrassing story, you can pull them aside privately and have a serious conversation about how it makes you feel. Explain that it's not just about that one story, but about respecting your boundaries in general. This can often make people more aware and less likely to share your embarrassing tales.
One can simply and firmly tell her that such topics are inappropriate and ask her to stop. For example, say 'Please don't talk about such things, it makes me uncomfortable.'
First, be aware of the reasons why you tell lie stories. Is it to avoid getting in trouble or to seem more interesting? Once you know the cause, you can start to address it.
Just be straightforward and tell them that scary stories make you uncomfortable or that they're not appropriate for the current situation.
One way is to be more self - aware. Notice when you start going into a long story and stop yourself. For example, if you find yourself starting to tell a story about your day when it's not relevant, just pause and say the key point instead.
Try to focus on the present moment. When you catch yourself telling a story in your mind, shift your attention to what's happening around you right now.
You can simply tell them that it's inappropriate. Just be straightforward and say that such stories are not welcome.
First, be clear about the main message or theme you want to convey. For example, if it's about your personal growth, focus on key turning points. Then, choose the right details. Don't overwhelm with too much information. Start from the beginning, middle, and end structure, just like a simple narrative. It could be something like 'I used to be shy, then an event happened that changed me, and now I'm more confident.'
We should stop telling scary stories because they can cause unnecessary fear and anxiety, especially to those who are easily frightened, like young children or people with a sensitive disposition.
You can directly tell them that such stories are inappropriate and make you uncomfortable. Be firm in your stance.