Well, first, try to understand her intentions. Maybe she's trying to enhance the experience for both of you. If you're okay with it, give it a try. If not, communicate your boundaries politely and clearly.
I think it's important to have a mutual understanding. If her suggestions align with your desires and comfort level, that's great. If not, have a calm talk to find a middle ground that works for both of you.
It depends on how you feel about it. If you're comfortable with her input, go along. But if it makes you uncomfortable, have an open and honest conversation with her.
You could tell her directly that you are not comfortable with this kind of topic and ask her not to bring it up again.
This is a complex and hurtful situation. You could directly tell her how much her actions have hurt you, both the cheating and sharing such a story. You may decide that you can't be in a relationship with someone who has so little regard for your feelings. Or, if you think there's a chance for her to change and you still love her deeply, you could suggest couples counseling to work through these issues.
It depends on your relationship dynamics. If you feel a bit shy or unsure, you could just listen quietly at first and then later tell her how you feel. You might also want to make sure that this is a healthy form of communication in your relationship and that both of you are okay with this kind of sharing.
First, you could listen attentively and show that you are interested in her sharing. It might be her way of being intimate with you on an emotional level.
Tell her directly that this is unacceptable. You can say that you value privacy in your relationship and her sharing sex stories goes against that. Try to make her understand the potential consequences, such as making others uncomfortable or causing damage to your relationship's reputation. Maybe also give her some examples of more positive and appropriate things to share instead, like your recent adventures together or interesting things you've learned.
This is a really awkward situation. It's important to realize that masturbation is a normal part of human sexual behavior, but it's private. When your friend catches you, it's natural to feel ashamed. You can approach your friend when you've both calmed down and say something like 'I know what you saw was inappropriate. I hope we can move past this and respect each other's privacy more in the future.' Try to be sincere and take steps to ensure it doesn't happen again in a situation where someone could walk in on you.
First, have an open and honest conversation with your girlfriend. Ask her why she made such a request. Maybe she has some misunderstandings about sexual exploration or is just curious in an inappropriate way. Explain to her that gay sex is about the sexual orientation of gay people, and if you're not gay, it's not something you should be forced to try even in the form of stories. You need to make it clear that you respect different sexual orientations but also want her to respect your own.
I wouldn't recommend using them at all. It's a major invasion of her privacy and can cause serious trust issues in the relationship.
First, it depends on your comfort level. If it makes you uncomfortable, you can gently tell her that you prefer not to hear such stories. For example, say 'Honey, I'm not really comfortable with these sex stories. Can we talk about other things?'
To handle the emotional pain, you should first give yourself permission to feel all the negative emotions. Then, you can seek support from your family or other reliable people. They can provide comfort and understanding. Another thing is to keep a positive mindset. Remember that this is just a setback in your life, and you will get over it eventually.