Just listen politely and try to show some interest. Maybe it's important to her even if it seems pointless to you.
Well, you could nod along and give occasional responses to make her feel heard. Sometimes people just need to share, regardless of the content. Or, if you feel comfortable, you could gently steer the conversation to a more engaging topic.
I'd say be patient and don't interrupt. You never know, there might be a hidden meaning or emotion behind the story. Maybe later you'll understand why she shared it. Or, if it's really bothering you, you could politely ask if there's a specific point she wants to make.
If a girl tells a dirty story, you could gently change the topic to something more appropriate. For example, start talking about a recent movie or a book you've read. This way, you can shift the conversation away from the inappropriate content without making her feel too embarrassed.
When a girl tells you that it's time for Dalang to take his medicine, you can answer her in a humorous way, such as,"Fool, don't even think about messing with my bowl." Or," Help me add some sugar. The medicine is too bitter. After you add it, help me taste it. I'll drink it again." Such an answer could resolve the awkwardness and increase the interest of the interaction.
You can ask relevant questions to show that you are really engaged in her stories. For example, if she is talking about her travel experience, you can ask about the local food or interesting people she met there. This not only makes her feel that you are listening carefully but also encourages her to share more details.
You could thank her and start a conversation to get to know her better.
Politely but firmly interrupt and explain that this kind of story is unacceptable in a respectful and inclusive environment. Suggest that they focus on positive, ethical topics that promote good relationships and respect for others. For example, stories about helping others or positive social interactions. If they continue, it may be necessary to distance yourself from them as their values may not align with yours.
It depends. Sometimes following blindly might not be a good idea if it's against your values or could lead to bad consequences.
First, you should listen attentively. Give her your full attention, make eye contact and nod to show that you are engaged. This will make her feel respected.
When a girl said to you," The moon is beautiful tonight," you could choose a different way to answer based on your feelings for her and your relationship with her. If you have the same feelings for her, you can answer,"Yes, the moon is really beautiful tonight." This kind of answer can express your resonance with her, and at the same time, it may also trigger her emotional resonance with you. If you don't have the same feelings for her, but want to be polite, you can answer: " The moon is beautiful tonight. Thank you." Such an answer could express your approval of her, but at the same time, it would not give her too much hope. In short, according to your feelings and relationship, choose a suitable answer to maintain good communication and interaction.
One should remain calm and respectful. Reacting with shock or judgment right away might make her feel bad. Just listen attentively if she wants to share it for some reason.
You could start by showing empathy and saying something like, 'I'm so sorry you're going through this.'