Which moment did you see that made you decide to chase after Qingyu Nian

Answer 1

Actually, what I said might be different from what other people care about, but the moment I saw it really poked me! And there's a refreshing feeling of enlightenment…It's when I read the novel, there's a scene where Fan Xian leaves Danzhou and bids farewell to the old lady!
"Fan Xian made an exception today and wore a long robe. He lifted the front of his robe, prostrated himself on the ground, and kowtowed to the old madam.
After he stood up, he used a method that was completely against the etiquette of the world to fiercely hug the old lady in his arms.
He kissed Grandma's wrinkled forehead and said softly,"Grandma, I'm not going to let you go."
Think of a way to find a good husband for Sisi, at least like Dong 'er."
All the servants in the residence pretended not to see the young master's mischief
The old madam was also shocked. She never thought that her usually calm and sensible grandson would actually be like this.
The mischievous side knocked his forehead and scolded,"What nonsense are you talking about? I will naturally deal with these things."
It was reasonable. "
Really, it's really poking me! Fan Xian had kissed the old lady's forehead in front of everyone before they parted. If it was now, not many people could think of doing this. The feelings of our countrymen are particular about being reserved and restrained. Let alone the elders, we can't even do it to our parents who we spend every day with. This was especially true for the elderly. They rarely had time to visit. No matter how many gifts you bought for them or how much money you gave them, it was not as simple as a hug or a kiss. The elderly would definitely be happier than anything if they did not say anything. However, we can often give more, but not a hug or a kiss. This was a sense of distance and unfamiliarity that could not be closed. So when I saw this, I suddenly thought of my grandmother and grandmother. I felt really guilty. I felt a sharp pain in my back, but I was also inexplicably very touched. At that time, it was because of this that I decided to finish reading the novel! Ps: So the next time I see Grandma, I plan to muster up the courage to give it a try, haha ~