In this case, the best answer was to be honest with him, but at the same time, respect his feelings and not give him too much pressure. She could tell him that she still liked him, but telling him this answer was not to make him have too many expectations or demands on her. Instead, it was to let go of the past and move on. At the same time, she could also express her gratitude and apology to him because he had a deep influence on her and made her grow up a lot. At the same time, she also expressed her hope that he could respect her feelings and give her some time and space to deal with her emotions. Finally, regardless of whether the other party has the same feelings for you, you should respect his decision. Don't force or persist, because this will not only be detrimental to you but also bring trouble to him.
I don't quite understand the exact meaning of your question. " Picking Wei " could be the title of a poem in " The Book of Songs·Xiaoya ", where " Wei " referred to the wild pea seedling, which was a poem about the soldiers guarding the border to express their feelings on their way home." Picking Wei " could also be an ancient song sung by Hita, inspired by " The Book of Songs·Xiaoya·Picking Wei ". In " Mute House·Zero," Picking Wei " was also an appearance. You can clarify the question so that I can answer it accurately. While waiting for the TV series, you can also click on the link below to read the classic original work of "Dafeng Nightwatchman"!
Love is a complex and diverse concept. You can answer your girlfriend's question from the following aspects: In essence, love was built on the basis of equality. Just like in a relationship between two people, whether it was on the material level or the spiritual level, if the gap between the two parties was too big, it might bring pressure to the relationship. For example, one party's family was poor, while the other party's family was well-off. There might be differences in consumption concepts, lifestyle, and so on. This kind of imbalance might cause one party to suppress themselves for a long time to cater to the other party during the process of getting along. This was not true love. True love should be when both parties stand on equal footing and get along without letting each other feel pressure. There was no need for one party to compromise. Love was also a feeling where one could appreciate the other party's strengths while tolerating the other party's shortcomings. For example, if one person liked to wear no makeup, but the other half felt that it was sloppy, there would be a contradiction. To truly love someone was to be able to appreciate her honesty and accept her appearance without makeup. Loving someone was not just accepting their strengths, but accepting them in all aspects, including those that might be seen as weaknesses. Love also meant that one was willing to give, not just talk about it. When the other party was sick, he didn't just say " drink more hot water ", but instead, he gave them medicine and water. When the weather was cold, he didn't just say " wear more clothes when it's cold ", but instead, he gave them warm clothes. When he promised the future, he would work hard for it, not just shout slogans without actual action. At the same time, love could also be seen as a holographic image that two people conspired to create. It needed to be maintained by both parties, and sometimes it also needed the appreciation of the audience. However, after creating it, it could not be left alone. However, this statement was relatively abstract. From a practical point of view, the equality, tolerance, and sacrifice mentioned earlier might be easier to perceive and understand.
Different people had different views on the requirements of love. One view was that true love required both parties to be on the same channel, otherwise, after the passion dissipated, they would face speechless and helpless days. Some people felt that love required a distinction between love and life. In literary works, love was passion, while life was more about responsibility and dullness. There was also a view that love required meeting, knowing, loving, and staying together for a lifetime at the right time. This required time, location, and people. At the same time, love required both parties to have a certain moral character. A relationship based on material benefits was not love. The love between a scumbag man and a scumbag woman often had a short shelf life.
He recommended a few novels. " Since I've fallen in love with you, I won't let go." Who else can I love other than you? It was written by a young school. The female lead was optimistic, strong, and stubborn, silently hiding her feelings. The male lead was cold and heartless, expressing his love with hurt. The fate of the heirs of the four major corporations changed because of the female protagonist. "I built an immortal court in the human world." Fragrant sweat, thin clothes, cool creation, immortal chivalrous genre. The protagonist Xu Boqing went to a strange world. His cheat was a game skill in his previous life. He was forced to fake castration and work in the Cining Palace. There were many characters in the book, each with their own characteristics. The plot was interesting. The main character was cheating. The early stage was weak and the later stage was invincible. There were many female leads. Although the emotional scenes were not portrayed well, the plot was very cool. " A Light Song Along the Way " was still a floating creation. It was a modern romance about urban life and was about evenly matched love. " If We Can Be Together " was a romantic creation by Ye Yi. It was a modern romantic story about a wealthy family. The female protagonist had fallen in love in her previous life but had no results. In this life, she became a child bride. She watched how Leng Nuan could love again. There will always be an angel who learns to love you, created by Tang Xiaoxi. It was a modern romance about wealthy families. It explored whether to give trust and love to imperfect lovers.
" If Love Is Still There " was a song. Judging from the emotions expressed by the title and lyrics, it was about the uncertainty of love and the regret of losing love. The lyrics contained both the desire and persistence for love, such as " If love is still in your heart and hasn't left, you can still boldly say it after many years. That long-aged lovesick wine will definitely be engraved with true love." There was also the helplessness of losing love, such as " Many things will only be understood after they have been lost. It turns out that after losing the love of your life, the desire to return to the past has long ceased to exist." Therefore, regarding the question of " if love is still there ", in real life, whether love exists depends on different people and depends on many factors, such as personal experience, emotional maintenance, environmental influence, etc. In the emotional context created by this song, love exists in the complicated emotions of memories, regrets, desires, and so on.
After so many years, she understood the good and bad, but the story of the past was long gone. Looking through the old photos that had been preserved, she recalled the past again. Many things would only be understood after they were lost. It turned out that after losing the love of one's life, wanting to go back to the past no longer existed. One could only keep all the good things in their minds. If love was still in your heart and hadn't left, and you could still boldly say it after many years, that long-aged lovesickness wine would definitely be engraved in your heart. It was filled with fatigue and anticipation. Perhaps it had never woken up from the dream of the future. Fate had long been arranged. Grasping the present was the best existence. If love is still there, how can I bear to leave? If love is still there, how can you bear to let go of your hand If love is still there, is there still a future in our lives? If love is still there, how can we linger at the crossroads of life If love is still in our hearts, will there still be helplessness? If love is still there, will you and I be hurt again? If love is still there, please come over bravely If love is still there, roses are still blooming If love is still there, our future is not blank If love was still there, I wouldn't be looking forward to it like a mountain If love is still there, I will hold you in my arms without looking back If love is still lovesickness, how can it be entangled in the sea of heart If everything would never happen again I will turn into a tail Looking forward to the blooming of the iron tree flowers
Love can be the answer in some manga, but it often depends on how the plot develops and the characters' journeys. Different mangas handle love differently.
Sometimes it is. In many manga, love can play a significant role and be seen as an answer to various problems or a source of strength for characters.
The lyrics of " If Love Is Still There " included the following content: After many years, I understood the good and bad, but the stories of the past were long gone. Looking through the old photos that were once preserved, I recalled the past again. Many things were lost before I understood. It turned out that I had lost the love of my life. If I wanted to go back to the past, it would no longer exist. I could only keep all the good things in my mind.
Love is the eternal theme of mankind. Its beauty and sorrow can always touch the softest corner of our hearts. There was a song that used simple lyrics and a moving melody to sing the regrets and nostalgia of many people in love. When we rush forward in the journey of life, we inadvertently look back and realize that there are some things that we only know how to cherish after losing them. As the song sang," Many things are lost before you understand. It turns out that you have lost the love of your life. The desire to go back to the past has long ceased to exist." In the world of love, there were many stories of love but not being able to stay together. The sweetness and warmth of the past might gradually fade away with the passage of time, but the love hidden deep in the bottom of her heart might still exist. Perhaps, we all had moments when we flipped through old photos. Memories of the past surged into our minds. Although the lovers and feelings of the past had become the past, the unforgettable feeling was always unforgettable. At this time, there was a song that sang out the emotions hidden in the bottom of her heart. It sang out the love that she wanted to say out loud but did not have the courage to. It was If Love Was Still Alive. Now, let us listen to this song full of stories.