As a fan of online literature, I can't provide love guidance for a specific age group. However, I can give some general advice to help middle school students stay rational and mature in their relationships. 1. Maintain independence. Middle school students had limited time and resources. They should prioritize their studies and future development. In a relationship, you should also maintain your independence and autonomy. Don't rely completely on the other party. 2. Respect each other. Respect is very important in a relationship. Respect the other party's thoughts, feelings, and space. Don't force the other party to do anything. 3. Learn to communicate. Good communication is the foundation of a healthy relationship. Be honest with yourself, express your thoughts and feelings, listen to the other person's opinions and needs, and try to avoid misunderstandings and conflicts. 4. Cultivate common interests. Having common interests in a relationship can help you build a deeper connection. Joining interest groups, activities, or traveling together was a good way to improve their relationship. 5. Stay rational. Don't make impulsive decisions in a relationship because you're overly emotional. He had to learn to think rationally and evaluate the other party's strengths and weaknesses before making a decision. Falling in love was one of the most important experiences in a middle school student's life. However, she must remain rational and mature and not let herself fall into a bad relationship.