Can the methods in romance novels chase girls?

I broke up with my girlfriend. I really want to get her back, so I read romance novels every day. Many of them are stalking. I'm a junior high school student. I have good looks and a good family background. I don't know why she wants to break up with me.

Answer 1

The methods in romance novels are usually created to create romance and attract the reader's attention, but they don't necessarily work for all people or all situations. To pursue a girl in real life, one had to follow some basic principles and etiquette, such as respecting the other party, communicating sincerely, establishing trust and mutual interests, etc.

If you really like a girl, the best way is to establish a good communication and relationship with her, understand her interests, hobbies, values, and personality characteristics, then find common ground and gradually deepen your understanding. In this process, you should try your best to show your strengths and charm, but don't force the other party to accept your decision and respect her.

In addition, romantic acts such as giving gifts, writing love letters, and sending flowers that often appear in romance novels can be tried at appropriate times, but you should also be careful not to pursue them too much to avoid making the other party feel uncomfortable. The most important thing was to maintain sincerity and respect in order to gain the other party's trust and affection.