Love expert, please come in!

I fell in love with a girl in my third year of high school. She was very cute and petite.
It was also the first time in my 18 years that I was so moved, and then I fell in love with her not long after.
But I haven't been in love since the first time I confessed, because I don't know
I usually ask her out to do something.
After the New Year, she became much colder. I'm good friends with her, so I asked her out.
She would not come out and find many excuses. Then, when her friend called her out, she immediately ran out.
I also knew that it wasn't her fault. I was a little uncomfortable with her. After three months, we broke up peacefully. I felt a little pity because we both had first love.
The question I want to ask is: We broke up on March 22, 2008, and we've been apart since then.
Do you think I should say no or good? Also, I'm going to join the army at the end of the year. Help me.
This girl especially likes non-mainstream things on the Internet. What should I do?
I really hate that. Besides, I'm more realistic and have little common topics with her.
It turns out that I have to think of a topic in advance when I go on a date with her. What she eats, drinks, watches, and plays, she says it's up to her.
Now that she's working, I'm always afraid that she'll get hurt. I always find an opportunity to ask about her and always think about her disadvantages.

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