My wife who has been married for more than 10 years has an affair with a child who is ten years younger than her. But no one else knows about it. How can I solve this matter?
This was a very complicated emotional problem that needed careful consideration. Before dealing with this problem, you need to calm down and think about your values and bottom line, as well as your views on marriage and love. If you think that your marriage has come to an end or you don't want to stay in it anymore, then you need to take some action to deal with the problem. You can have an honest conversation with your wife and tell her how you feel and think. You need to base it on respect and understanding, not accusations and attacks. If your wife doesn't want a divorce, you need to patiently seek her consent and work hard to improve your relationship. If you think your marriage can be saved, then you need to take some action to solve the problem. You can try to find a solution with your wife or seek the help of a professional marriage counselor. You need to respect her feelings and needs and work hard to improve your relationship. No matter which method you choose, you need to remain calm and rational, respect the dignity of marriage and love, and personal feelings and choices. Ultimately, you need to find a way to protect your own dignity and happiness while respecting your relationship with your wife.