How should I deal with my love for someone in my fantasy, even if he doesn't exist in reality? Even though I already have two or three boyfriends, I still can't control myself from thinking about him.
Darling, you're in the quagmire of unrequited love. But don't worry, I have a novel here that can help you. It's called " My Dream." This short story was about a girl who was obsessed with a boy in her fantasy and could not control her thoughts. Perhaps you can find some inspiration from it to help yourself out of the predicament of unrequited love. I hope my recommendation will be helpful to you.
How do I solve the problem that I don't like my boyfriend to read novels? Even though I've told him many times, he doesn't listen to my opinion?
Dear, you can try reading some of your favorite novels with your boyfriend, and then ask him to recommend some of his favorite novels to you. This way, you can understand each other's preferences and slowly develop common interests. In addition, she could try to communicate with him and see why he liked to read novels. Perhaps she could understand his hobby from his point of view. I hope my suggestion will be helpful to you. If you have any good books to recommend, feel free to tell me ~
I can't log in on my phone or campus, and my account doesn't exist.
There may be many reasons for the non-existence of accounts that cannot be logged into mobile phones and schools. You can refer to the following common situations: 1. The reason why I can't log in with my phone number is probably because my phone number has already been registered by someone else. You can check if your phone number has been registered or try to change your phone number to log in. 2. The reason why the school account could not be logged in might be because the account had expired or was registered by someone else. You can check if the account has expired or try to register a new account. 3 The reason why the account does not exist may also be related to the account being stolen or deleted. You can check if the account has been stolen or try to use the password recovery function to retrieve the account password. If the account has been stolen, it is recommended to contact the school's customer service immediately for help. If the above methods cannot solve the problem, it is recommended to contact the school's customer service or mobile phone number operator for help.
When I can't control myself, how can I deal with social situations?
Well, first, you could remove yourself from the situation for a moment to regain composure. Then, analyze what's causing the loss of control and try to address that. Also, communicate openly with others involved to explain your feelings.
Someone doesn't follow me but watches my stories. How should I feel about it?
You could feel neutral. It's just one of those things. They might be a passing viewer.
He likes my posts but doesn't watch my stories. How should I feel about this?
Well, it's normal not to feel great about it at first. But consider that everyone uses social media differently. Maybe he's still showing his interest in you through liking your posts. Don't let it bother you too much and keep sharing what you like on both posts and stories.
The college entrance examination is in 180 days, but I'm still reading novels. I can't control myself and my grades aren't good. What should I do?
As a fan of online literature, I can understand your current predicament and anxiety. But I hope you can recognize the danger of this situation and take positive measures to deal with it. Reading novels is a bad behavior. It wastes time and distracts your attention, making it difficult for you to concentrate on your studies. At the same time, reading novels can also cause negative emotions to affect your mood and mental state. Therefore, I suggest you take the following measures to control your reading behavior: 1. Make a study plan and study hard according to the plan. 2. Set a time limit for reading novels and prohibit yourself from reading novels within the specified time. Find a study partner or teacher to study with them and supervise each other. Try to replace reading novels with other activities such as sports, reading, music, etc. If you find that you can't control your behavior, you can seek psychological advice or help. Finally, I hope you can persist in your positive actions and study hard to achieve good results. I wish you all the best for your college entrance examination!
My mom checks all my boyfriends. How can I deal with it?
First, try to understand her motives. Maybe she had bad experiences in the past or she just loves you so much and is worried. Then, communicate. Say something like 'Mom, I know you care about me, but I need to learn and grow in my relationships on my own. I will come to you if I have problems.' Also, you can ask her to trust your judgment more. If she still oversteps, limit the information you share about your boyfriends with her until she respects your boundaries.
My boyfriend said that he doesn't like to be controlled, but I didn't really control him. I just told him to have less contact with indecent people.
In this case, your boyfriend may think that you are interfering too much in his personal life and social relationships. Although you didn't take excessive action, it might make him feel uncomfortable and controlled. In a relationship, both parties should respect each other and have their own private space and social circles. If you want your boyfriend to be with those indecent people, you should tell him directly instead of limiting his social activities to solve the problem. You can try to solve this problem through communication and understanding. You can communicate with him honestly, tell him your thoughts, and listen to his thoughts and feelings. If you can't solve this problem on your own, you can consider seeking professional help such as a counselor or psychologist.
I feel that my husband doesn't care about me and isn't good enough. When I scold him, he still quibbles. He doesn't think that he has done anything wrong. But I told him I didn't like him like that
This is a question about relationships and family. Here are some suggestions that might be useful: Communication: The best way to feel that your husband doesn't care about you is to communicate with him honestly. Try asking him if he's unhappy with you in any way and listen to his answer. Don't blame him but try to understand his feelings and thoughts. Tell him how you feel and try to understand his perspective. Set boundaries: Try to set some family rules and boundaries in the process of communication to ensure that the relationship between you and your husband will not be destroyed. For example, he could tell him which behaviors were unacceptable and which topics were not suitable for discussion. 3. Give him space: Sometimes men may feel that they need some alone time so that they can re-think and deal with their feelings. Try to give him some space and time to calm down so that he can better understand your feelings. 4. Find common ground: Although there are differences between you, perhaps you have something in common that can better understand and support each other. Try to find out what you have in common and strengthen your communication and interaction in these areas. 5. Ask for help: If you feel that you can't solve the problem on your own or that communication between you can't be improved, you can consider seeking professional help such as a counselor or family psychiatrist. In the end, dealing with this problem will require the efforts and cooperation of the two of you. Try to be open to understanding and supporting each other and work hard to improve your relationship.
He purposely doesn't watch my stories. How should I react?
Maybe try to have a conversation with him. Ask him directly why he doesn't watch your stories. It could clear up any misunderstandings. For example, you could say something like 'I noticed you don't watch my stories. Is there a reason?' This open communication can often solve such small mysteries.