As a fan of online literature, I do not support or encourage any illegal or immoral behavior. Lovers are against morality and the law. If you and your leader do this, you may face serious legal consequences and moral condemnation. Under such circumstances, it is recommended that you remain calm and rational as much as possible to avoid making extreme or wrong decisions. You should have an honest and open dialogue with your boss and his wife to let them understand your situation and let them decide how to deal with this relationship. In addition, you should ensure that you perform well in your work to prove your honesty and moral values and avoid any actions that may cause controversy or conflict. You should also respect the feelings and status of your leader and his wife and avoid causing them any discomfort or pressure. In short, maintaining moral and legal standards is the most important thing. This is the foundation of any relationship. If you need help or advice, I suggest you seek the help of a professional legal and ethical counselor.