A book suitable for girls to read about growing up

In my life, I would always encounter a lot of problems related to getting along with others. I wonder if there's a book about girls growing up or a book that can help me solve my problems. Thank you, everyone.
It was not the kind of perfect girl's rules that could be found everywhere on the street. It was the kind that was really useful and practical in life. It was a girl's growth experience. From it, one could see how the female lead overcame the difficulties in life and lived on. It could inspire people or guide them in the right direction and how they could do whatever they encountered. Also, someone asked about her specific age. She should be 17 or 19 years old, when she was in puberty.

Answer 1

Dream of the Red Chamber was one of the representative works of Chinese classical literature and a masterpiece in the history of Chinese literature. The novel used the life experiences of Jia Baoyu, Lin Daiyu, Xue Baochai and other characters as the main line to show the various ills of the feudal society of the Qing Dynasty and the distortion of human nature. The plot of the novel is complicated, the characters are full, and the language is beautiful. It is a classic work in Chinese classical novels.