Buying a book that focused on being a person before doing things was not a wise choice. In some cases, this might make your colleagues think that you're not very good at being a person. But if you study the knowledge and advice in this book and apply them in real life, you may find yourself becoming more mature and confident. Interpersonal relationships were very important in the workplace. If your colleagues think you're not good at dealing with people, it may have a negative impact on your interpersonal relationships. Therefore, I suggest that you focus on improving your interpersonal skills while reading this book. The most important thing was not to care too much about other people's opinions. You're a unique individual. You should believe in your own abilities and value. As long as you study and put the knowledge in the book into practice, you will definitely succeed.