People slander me, bully me, humiliate me, laugh at me, despise me, despise me, hate me, cheat me, how to deal with it? Is this the original creation of the beacon fire playing with the princes?This was not a joke but a poem from the Tang Dynasty poet Han Yu's "Replying to Zhang Shiyi's Gongcao." However, the modern version of this sentence may be different due to various sources. For example, it may be a line from a certain network, a TV series, a movie, a game, and so on.
The world lists me. Humiliate me or something.If the protagonist of a novel was ridiculed by the world, it was usually because the protagonist had some kind of defect or deficiency that caused him to be belittled or ridiculed. This defect or deficiency could be the protagonist's appearance, personality, ability, behavior, morality, and other aspects.
In novels, the protagonist would change his fate through a series of events and choices and gradually win people's respect and recognition. This kind of plot usually makes the readers feel shocked and moved because they can see the protagonist overcome the difficulties and obstacles in society through his own efforts and will and finally realize his self-worth.
However, there were also times when the main character of the world list and the plot of humiliating the main character were used to increase the suspense and conflict of the novel so that the readers would pay more attention to the development of the story. In this case, the author would usually use various means to reveal the protagonist's life experience, background, secrets, etc. to increase the depth and complexity of the novel.
Why do some people always look down on me when they talk to me in class?This was a rather complicated question that involved many aspects such as interpersonal relationships, personality, and situation. The following are some possible reasons:
1. Character and behavior habits: Some people may be born arrogant or like to look down on others in their usual interactions. This kind of personality and behavior habits may cause them to be more arrogant in their attitude and tone towards others.
2. Self-confidence: Some people may lack self-confidence for some reason, which makes them easy to show inferiority when interacting with others. In this case, they might deliberately emphasize their own strengths and ignore their own shortcomings, thus showing contempt for others.
Communication problems: Some people may not have enough communication skills to effectively express their opinions or feelings. They may show arrogance because of their own emotions or show contempt for others because they don't understand what others think.
4. Situation problems: In certain situations, some people may show arrogance for various reasons. For example, they might have suffered setbacks in class or been criticized by others, causing them to have different opinions of themselves and others.
Whatever the reason, if you feel that someone in class is belittling you, you can try the following methods to improve the situation:
Maintain self-confidence: improve your self-confidence and learn to pay attention to your strengths and weaknesses.
2. improve communication skills: learn effective communication skills, learn to express your opinions and feelings, and learn to listen to other people's thoughts and opinions.
3. Learn to understand: Understand the thoughts and feelings of others and avoid showing arrogance because of your own emotions.
4. Active communication: Take the initiative to communicate with others, establish good interpersonal relationships, and expand your social circle.
A classical Chinese dialogue about the attitude of people who look down on themselves: It seems to be "... bullying me, bullying me, humiliating me,... in a few years, look at him."An example of a conversation in classical Chinese is as follows:
A woman met a man who said to her contemptuously,"You are the ugliest woman in the village." The woman was very unhappy when she heard this, but she could not refute it directly. So she replied,"She's just a woman. Why do you say that about her?" In a few years, you can see him."
The man listened to the woman's words and felt even more angry. He said to her,"Your way of speaking is really disgusting. What qualifications do you think you have to judge others?" The woman replied," I'm not judging you. I'm just telling you that everyone has their own value and meaning. You despise me and insult me, but you don't know that your existence itself has brought a lot of inconvenience and pain to this world. I won't tolerate a self-righteous person like you."
After listening to the woman's words, the man deeply reflected on his behavior and expressed his admiration for her wisdom and courage. Then he apologized to the woman and changed his attitude.
Women's behavior tells us that when we face others 'contempt and insult, we can't just be angry and angry, but should face it with wisdom and courage. We shouldn't easily give up our own value and dignity because everyone has their own value. No matter how they look, we should respect and appreciate others instead of despising and insulting them.