A few people said that I had a good temperament. Said I was very quiet, and said I was as sad and melancholic as a lilac girl. Was this a compliment or a derogatory term?
According to the description, these evaluations seemed to be more focused on personal temperament, quiet and melancholic characteristics rather than specific behavior or qualities. Therefore, these evaluations may be more positive or negative, depending on the personal preferences and opinions of the observer. From the description, it seems that someone has emphasized certain positive characteristics such as quietness and elegance in your appearance and personal temperament. These factors can be seen as positive qualities or positive ones. But if the observer thinks your appearance or behavior doesn't meet their expectations, then these comments can also be negative. In summary, the meaning of these evaluations may vary according to the observer's point of view and evaluation method, so they cannot accurately describe your personality traits.