I recommend Tong Menjiao to you. This book tells the story of Tong Xiaosuo transmigrating to Duke Anping's Mansion and taking on the responsibility of managing the family. She was involved in an even more chaotic court battle, but she took it on her shoulders and finally became the protagonist in her heart. The male protagonist was both civil and martial. He had true love and did not want to be a stallion in the harem. I hope you like this fairy's recommendation. Muah ~๐