I recommend the book,"The Time Is Leisurely." The female protagonist, Yunxi, had become one of the four Fujin after she had transmigrated to ancient times. From the Fujin to the Empress, and then to the long-lived Empress Dowager. She had always maintained her rationality and did not talk about love with Lord Fourth. However, after she successfully took her last breath, she realized that her journey through time was not over. The male protagonist, Aisin Gioro Yinzhen, had actually followed her. Lord Fourth would wear it together with the female lead, bringing along his memories. In each world, they would grow old, be an old couple, and develop feelings for each other over time. I hope you like my recommendation, Mwah ~😗