My female leader often tells me about her family's misfortune and so on. She's 47 years old this year.

My female leader often tells me about her family's misfortune and so on. She's 47 years old this year, so I don't know what she means. Maybe she wanted you to care about her or talk about her family problems, but it could also be that she wanted to use this topic to attract your attention or discuss some other topic. If you want to know her true intentions, you can try asking her, for example,"Why do you always talk about your family's misfortune?" Does this bother you or make you uncomfortable?" Or "Can you share some other topics so that we can get to know each other better?" No matter how you respond, it was very important to respect your female leader's feelings and privacy. If she needs help or support, please do your best to help.