My blind date didn't graduate from high school and was working in the kitchen. I always felt unbalanced and didn't like men working in the kitchen.

Don't feel unbalanced or dislike because of the background or occupation of the blind date. Everyone had their own strengths and weaknesses, and these should not be the standard to judge a person's value. If you like this person, you should try to understand other aspects of him/her such as hobbies, family background, career prospects, etc. Perhaps you will find that you have a lot in common and you can support and respect each other in these areas. If you still think that there are differences between you, you can consider communicating and finding a solution to the problem. Perhaps you can learn new skills together or seek professional help to improve the gap between you. Don't be too sensitive about the status of your career in your family. A career was only a part of a person's income, while family and relationships were the focus of a person's life. Choosing a suitable career and working hard for it could not only improve one's social status but also bring better economic benefits.