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True. They keep saying that they feel heartbroken or heartache when Penny behaves maturely but they refuse to take it upon themselves. They let her deal with bratty brothers as if it's her responsibility. Now too, if you are actually willing to do stuff for her, you will regardless of her words. This sort of behaviour feels like pity more than love. We understand that you are uncomfortable but we will just feel sad and keep letting you deal with it.

*abused *a child

Idk may be her aunt sounds protective but that still doesn't change the fact that she would have neglected and abuses Penny if not for her money. It actually can be said about a lot of characters in such novels. There are characters who executed the FL in past life yet fall for them in next life. Despite of all that, I feel like even in this life she stays the same money-minded person, someone who would vent her frustration on a child, Nina is merely achild after all.

awwwww

Calm down, her obsession with food is psychological. If someone is dealing with ed you don't make them feel better by fatshaming, rather by comforting them and making them feel like theys're in a safe space. It takes time.

He is making an excuse I think.

Neglecting one isn't going to magically make the other one feel better, rather it will make them feel superior. Given that they have multiple children, they should know how to balance.