Beloved Gay

how would you feel if you know your future husband is gay ?? continue to marry him ?? or just back off ?? and how do you feel if you have tried hard so that the woman you don't like gets out of your life but instead still persists even though you have done everything you can to make her give up ?? but you fall in love instead, how will you deal with it? And how would you feel if you fell in love with the wife of your gay partner as well as your adopted sister? even you used to want to kill him because she was the woman who destroyed your relationship with your gay lover? how will this story unfold? which way should they determine their steps?