Punish Ourselves for Other People’s Mistakes

"You will understand this just by looking at your own situation. If not for the sake of having a child, you can't even be bothered about men anymore."

"Regarding having a child, Wei De already has a son: Wei Wei. His parents already have a grandchild. Wei De already has someone to pass down the family line. Will the Wei family feel anxious for Wei De to find a woman to marry? Let's talk about a disgusting situation. Didn't that sister of Wei De also come to Ping Cheng? Wei De is lacking neither son nor woman. Wei De's sister can also help Wei De in something that an ordinary woman and wife can do for him. Why would he marry at this point unless the woman is someone like you who can help Wei De? Otherwise, he would have ruined his own path to wealth then, no?"

Wei De did not lack a son or a woman. He only lacked the opportunity to rise in the ranks and become wealthy.