knowing the unknown in my own way

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The understanding of the three realms of life related to the ordinary was as follows: First, he had to accept his parents 'ordinariness. Parents were often omnipotent existences in the hearts of children, but as they grew up, they would discover that parents were also ordinary. They had ordinary abilities, ordinary social status, and so on. It was a realm to be able to accept this. The second was to accept his own ordinariness. In the process of growing up, many people initially harbored great ideals and thought that they could do anything. However, as they experienced more, such as learning, working, facing grades, and working hard, they gradually realized that their abilities were limited. They were just ordinary people. It was a realm to truly accept themselves. Finally, he had to accept his children's ordinariness. When one became a parent, one would often have high expectations of their children. However, every child had their own characteristics and abilities. It was also a realm to be able to recognize that their children were ordinary individuals and not impose their unfulfilled expectations on their children. In addition, there were also views that divided life into three realms: ordinary, extraordinary, and ordinary. Those who truly understood life were those who accepted their own ordinariness and understood that ordinary people had the greatness of ordinary people. They did not have to deliberately pursue the extraordinary in the eyes of others. After experiencing various life experiences, they had a deeper understanding of the ordinary, which was also a manifestation of their own ordinariness. The Extraordinary Ordinary Life novel is equally exciting. Everyone is welcome to click and read it!

Here are some ways to reflect on your life: - ** Reflection based on the past **: - [Face your past: Whether it was success or failure, happiness or sadness, you can't change it, so you have to face it bravely.] He should not run away from his past mistakes and regrets. Instead, he should analyze them carefully and learn from them. These experiences would lay the foundation for future development. - [Record mistakes and inadequacies]: As a famous person said, if you don't record your mistakes, it's easy to indulge yourself in repeating them. By recording his mistakes and shortcomings, he could see more clearly where he had deviated from his ideal direction in his past life and thus identify the direction for improvement. - [Reflection based on the present]: - [Focus on the present: Everything that happens now is the best arrangement.] Focus on the present allows one to better perceive the surrounding environment, keenly capture hidden opportunities, and actively turn opportunities into practical actions. Every present experience and challenge was an opportunity for growth. By actively responding to the present and constantly learning and growing, one could lay the foundation for a change in life's trajectory. - ** Dealing with difficulties with faith **: Take successful people as an example, such as Bezos, who faced many difficult challenges in the early days of founding Amazon, but he always adhered to his beliefs and finally succeeded in changing his life trajectory. This was a revelation that when people encountered difficulties at the moment, a firm belief would help them walk the path of life. - [Future Reflection]: - [Clear goals and ideals: Imagining the future is the source of motivation to change the trajectory of life.] He had to bravely write down his unfulfilled wishes and set up lofty ideals and goals. Just like Jack Ma's ideal of "making the world's business difficult" when he founded Ali, he had to constantly strive to move forward with goals as the guide. - Thinking from the beginning: Standing at the end and looking at the starting point, looking at the present from the perspective of goals or the future. First, he had to make clear his final vision of life. For example, he had to think about what he wanted to be judged by others at the funeral. This would help him identify the direction he wanted to go and avoid getting lost in the process of working hard. - " Examining the bottom-level thinking mode ": The bottom-level thinking mode determines the choice. Different thinking modes will lead to different trajectories in life. He could analyze his own thinking patterns when he made major decisions in the past to determine if it would help him achieve his ideal life trajectory. If not, he would need to adjust his thinking patterns. - [Control negative emotions and instincts: There are many kinds of troubles for humans. Among them, the three poisons of desire, anger, and stupidity can easily lead one's actions to the wrong path.] He had to learn to control these instincts. Through self-reflection, such as when he was proud and complacent, he would reflect on himself to remind himself to remain humble, so as to correct the trajectory of his life and maintain the right direction. <a href="/?from=ask_words" style="color:red" target="_blank">Read more exciting novels for free</a>