etiquette for mistresses

In ancient times, the etiquette of serving wine involved many aspects. For example, on important occasions such as sacrificial ceremonies or drinking by nobles, there were specialized personnel in charge of the selection of wine vessels, the selection of wine, and how to serve wine. There were four main steps in ancient drinking etiquette: first, bow to show respect; then pour a little wine on the ground to thank the earth for giving birth; then taste the wine and praise it; finally, drink it up. At the banquet, the host toasted the guests as a reward, the guests toasted the host as a reward, the guests toasted each other as a reward, and toasted each other in turn as a toast. Ordinary toasts were three glasses, and the toasting person and the toasted person had to "avoid"(stand up). In modern toasting etiquette, if one drank with a leader or an elder, the toast should be in a clockwise order and one's cup should be lower than others, which meant respect. The toast should start from the leader or the elder first; the toast could only be made after the leader and the elder finished drinking each other. The leader and the elder could toast many people, but the younger generation could not. When toasting, one should not use one hand, let alone the left hand. When clinking glasses, the cup body should not be higher than the leader, elders or customers. When toasting, the right hand should hold the cup body and the left hand should hold the bottom of the cup. When clinking glasses, try to lower the cup as much as possible. If the other party's cup body is lower than your own, you can lightly hold the other party's cup bottom. It is both decent and polite. While waiting for the TV series, you can also click on the link below to read the classic original work of "Dafeng Nightwatchman"!

The ceremony of school education was a solemn and orderly etiquette that was followed in ancient times. According to the Biography of Zuo Xiong in the Book of the Later Han Dynasty and other relevant documents, the ritual of Xiang Xu referred to the nine ministers (ancient officials) wearing jade articles during their actions and performing their actions according to certain rituals and regulations. The purpose of this ceremony was to show the identity and status of officials, as well as to maintain social order and etiquette. The etiquette of the school was also reflected in ancient schools. Students also had to follow certain solemn and orderly etiquette in their studies and actions.

In traditional China etiquette, sitting had a rich meaning. In ancient times, sitting posture in formal occasions required respect. For example, sitting on one's knees, with one's upper body upright and one's buttocks pressed back on one's calves and feet that were flat on the ground. This was the standard posture for formal occasions. One needed to maintain an upright and straight body to reflect one's self-cultivation and respect for others. Before the Han Dynasty, most of the formal occasions were sitting on the ground, kneeling on both knees, with the lower legs flat, and the buttocks naturally attached to the heels. When serious, the body was straight and the eyes were level. This kind of sitting posture was called "flat sitting","sitting" or "sitting". When the subordinate faced the superior, the sitting posture with the head slightly lowered was called "sitting upright". There was also the "sitting posture", which meant that the body should sit upright, the calves should not be stretched out, the soles of the feet should not touch the ground, and the eyes should be at the same level. Those who lowered their heads slightly and looked at the knees of the Venerable One opposite them were called "respectful sitting"; those who lowered their heads and looked not far away were called "solemn sitting"; those who lowered their heads and looked at the ground with their elbows drooping were called "humble sitting". In addition to these more solemn sitting postures, there were also sitting postures in an unofficial setting or in a situation where both parties were familiar with each other. For example,"squatting" meant that the buttocks were on the ground, the legs were naturally bent together, and the hands were sitting on the knees;"Jichu" meant that the buttocks were on the ground, and the two legs were straight. However, this kind of sitting posture was considered impolite in ancient times, such as "sitting without a dustpan" mentioned in the Book of Rites. Sitting posture was first a form of courtesy, and then a form of etiquette. It reflected social order and the norms and respect in interpersonal communication. With the development of the times, tables and chairs became more common. Although sitting posture had changed a lot, the respect and solemnity of traditional sitting etiquette were still reflected in modern etiquette, such as in some traditional ceremonies or specific cultural exchange scenes. The novel " Sitting and Watching Immortals " is equally exciting. Everyone is welcome to click and read it!

The following are some Buddhist rules and etiquette: 1. The clothes to enter the temple should be clean and simple, and should not wear shorts, vests or slippers. 2. When entering a Buddhist temple, one should not speak loudly, avoid talking about heaven and earth, walk with shoulders and backs hooked, casually take pictures of Buddha statues, bring meat and meat food to eat, and should not regard the Buddhist temple as a "place for online celebrities to punch cards" or a garden. 3. Enter the Buddhist temple without entering the middle door, enter from the side door and do not step on the threshold, need to hold your feet to enter. 4. Do not smoke, wear slippers, or chew betel nuts when entering the temple hall. You should enter the temple hall barefooted or wearing shoes. 5. He did not stand or worship in the middle of the temple hall. 6. Don't take a needle or a thread from the temple. If you use the temple's items (such as making a phone call), you should put an equivalent amount into the Merit Box. 7. If you are asked the name of a certain master, you should say that you are above and below. You cannot directly call your master by his name, nor can you call him brother. 8. In the vegetarian hall or lounge of the Buddhist temple, you should not compete for seats or shout loudly. You should stop talking when eating in the vegetarian hall. You should enter and leave the vegetarian hall in an orderly manner according to the guidance of the temple volunteers. You should not smack your lips loudly when eating. 9. If you spend the night in a Buddhist temple and hear the master's board telling the public to go to sleep, you should turn off the lights and go to bed. You should not turn on the lights to play with your mobile phone, read books, or chat. All work and rest should follow the rules of the temple. 10. In the Buddhist temple to save things, do not extravagance, do not waste, do not bring Buddhist temple items home for private use. 11. Without the permission of the temple staff, you are not allowed to enter the monk's dormitory and other places. 12. In order to keep the Buddhist land clean, it was strictly forbidden to bring all meat and fish and their products into the monastery. 13. Enter the hall along the left and right sides, not the center. If you walk on the left side of the door, you should enter with your left foot first, and if you walk on the right side, you should enter with your right foot first. 14. The abbot of a temple was called "Abbot" or "Abbot". There were also different titles for monks, such as "Master"(a person who often practices Sanskrit, is familiar with Buddhism, and can guide and educate all living beings),"Master Sanzang"(a respectful title for those who are proficient in Buddhist scriptures, laws, and Sanzang),"Zen Master"(a monk who is dedicated to meditation and is familiar with meditation),"Lawyer"(a monk who specializes in studying, explaining, and reading the precepts), and "Elder"(a big monk who is old, has tall hair, and has excellent wisdom and virtue). When using them, they should follow the corresponding etiquette. 15. When a religious ceremony or dojo is held in the temple, it should not be disturbed by loud noises. While waiting for the TV series, you can also click on the link below to read the classic original work of "Dafeng Nightwatchman"!

The etiquette of a French banquet included the following points: When the guests arrived, the host would usually greet them at the door. Be careful to wait until the host invited you in before entering. Before leading them into the living room, the host first asked the guests to take off their coats and then sat down together in the living room. In France, there was no habit of inviting guests to visit the house. Usually, everyone sat around and chatted. When the guest took out the gift, the hostess would usually say,"You shouldn't do this!" "I'm so embarrassed by what you're doing!" But this was just a customary courtesy. When attending a banquet in France, it was best for the guests to arrive 15 minutes to half an hour later than the agreed time, so as to give the host enough time to prepare. When attending a banquet, it was usually necessary to bring a small gift to the host, such as flowers or chocolates. If it was a formal banquet, the hostess would spread the napkin on her lap, which was the sign of the beginning of the banquet. This novel is the original novel of the recently popular TV series " Rebirth ". If you can't get enough of the drama, you can read the novel in one go. Hurry up and click on the book link below to read it!