the man who never was

Perhaps it's a historical figure that the narrator has only heard stories about but never truly known personally. It could be someone who made great contributions but remained somewhat of an enigma to the narrator.

Although there was no explicit mention of "never domestic violence" in the many criteria for judging a good man, it could be inferred from the moral character and other related content that a good man should have that a good man should not have domestic violence. For example, a good man should have good character, a sense of responsibility, respect for his family, and other qualities. These qualities were contrary to domestic violence. Domestic violence was a serious violation of morality and harm to others. From the general perception of good men, they would treat their families in a positive and healthy way, such as understanding tolerance in family relationships, respecting women, and having good emotional management skills. These were all incompatible with domestic violence. Therefore, not using domestic violence could be seen as an implicit standard of a good man. The novel," Deaths from domestic violence, I went crazy from the bullet comments ", is equally exciting. Everyone is welcome to click and read it!

From an emotional point of view, the fact that the IT guy didn't take the initiative to contact you didn't mean that he didn't like you. Some IT men might be more introverted, otaku, and not very good at communicating with people or expressing their feelings. Therefore, even if they like you, they might not take the initiative to contact you. In addition, some IT men might be very focused on their work and research, and rarely have time and energy to socialize. This may also cause them to not take the initiative to contact others, including people they like. From the perspective of behavior, the reason why the IT guys didn't take the initiative to contact him was probably because their behavior was different from others. Some IT guys might prefer to communicate with people by email, text messages, and so on instead of calling or meeting. Therefore, even if they don't take the initiative to contact you, they may keep in touch with you through other means. This doesn't mean that they don't like you. In addition, some IT men may be more concerned about their privacy and safety and are reluctant to disclose their activities and emotional status on social media, which may also cause them to not take the initiative to contact others. From a relationship perspective, IT guys might not take the initiative to contact you because their expectations and methods of communication are different from yours. Some IT men might value freedom and independence more and dislike being bound and restrained, so they were not willing to contact or meet others frequently. In addition, some IT men might be more rational and thoughtful, and not like to be emotional or blindly pursue romance. This might also cause them to not take the initiative to contact others. In short, just because the IT guy didn't take the initiative to contact you didn't mean that he didn't like you. To understand their emotions, behaviors, and ways of communication, more communication and understanding were needed. " When a programmer meets a psychologist " is equally exciting. Everyone is welcome to click to read it!

Yes, it was based on real events. But some details might have been dramatized for the sake of the narrative.

Yes, it is based on real events. But it might have some fictional elements added for dramatic effect.