the silence that learned to listen

The article in the 15th issue of the 2008 issue of the Reader was titled " You Listen to Youth Singing Silently ". It was a short story written by Beijing. The article told the story of a young man named Li Yun, who worked in a primary school in a remote mountainous area called the Great Northwest, helping the teachers take care of the students. Li Yun was an artistic youth who liked to write poems and sing songs. He and his colleagues organized a poetry club to hold poetry competitions and concerts regularly. In this article, Li Yun and his colleagues experienced many difficulties and challenges, but they still maintained their love for literature and music, as well as their passion and hope for life. They spent their lonely times together singing about the beauty and freedom of youth. This article was loved and praised by many readers as one of the representative works. It depicted the life and spiritual pursuit of a group of young people, emphasizing their love for life and hope for the future.

A person might choose to remain silent for the following reasons: 1. ** Mental state ** - ** Happiness and comfort **: When a person feels happy and comfortable in front of others, they may be talkative and talk a lot of nonsense. On the other hand, if a person spoke less nonsense, they might not be happy, but they might also choose to remain silent. - Disappointment: When you are disappointed with someone or something, such as facing various situations and opinions, even if it is criticized and slandered, you are indifferent. It is not that you are not eloquent or unreasonable, but you are so disappointed that you don't want to talk. Silence becomes an expression. - [Understand your position in the other person's heart: When you know that you are insignificant in the other person's heart, you will choose to remain silent when you feel that there is no point in talking to someone who doesn't care about you.] - [Distrust: As your experience increases, you may no longer trust others easily. You can't speak your mind to anyone, so you choose to remain silent.] - ** Don't want to disappoint yourself **: If you get a neutral response when you confide in someone, in order to avoid disappointment, you will no longer express yourself and remain silent. 2. ** In terms of interpersonal relationships ** - ** Weakened in a relationship **: Words are insignificant in a relationship, and they have even been criticized for speaking out. They will choose to remain silent in order to protect themselves. - ** Disdain to care **: After experiencing many things, I feel that some things are not worth arguing about. In order to gain peace, I no longer care about them and remain silent. - [Disdain to Explain]: Sometimes, the more you explain, the less trust you get. For those who deliberately doubt you, you don't need to explain. Just wait for the right time. 3. ** In terms of personal growth and accomplishment ** - [Too much stress in life: As I grow older, I have to take on many roles in my life. The pressure increases. I feel that talking will only increase my troubles and I can't express it. Therefore, I choose to recover in silence.] - [Appearance of accomplishment and maturity: Knowing that there are some things you shouldn't say and some things you shouldn't say. Silence is a form of respect for others and also an expression of accomplishment and maturity.] 4. ** Mental defense mechanism ** - ** Silence Effect **: When some people were young, their needs were not responded to. When they said their needs, they were criticized instead, forming a vicious cycle. When they grew up, they might become silent because of this self-protection and self-digestion consciousness. They had something to say but did not know how to say it. " The Silent Eyewitness " novel is equally exciting. Everyone is welcome to click and read it!

" Silence " had many meanings. From the perspective of interpersonal communication, silence could be a manifestation of wisdom. Wise people knew how to stop talking at the right time and not easily expose their thoughts and trump cards. For example," those who know don't speak, and those who speak don't know " expressed that endless talk was often petty cleverness, and knowing silence was great wisdom. In terms of emotions, the end of emotions was often silence. When people were disappointed to a certain extent or saw through some things, they might choose to keep quiet and use silence instead of questioning or arguing. This was a form of self-protection or silent resistance to the status quo. There were also cultural works named after " silence." For example, the movie " Silence " was a drama film about a series of stories triggered by the murder of a rich man's fiancée. There was also the TV series " Silence ", which was a criminal investigation theme. It was about the case of a special task force led by the director of the Public Security Bureau. " The Silent Eyewitness " novel is equally exciting. Everyone is welcome to click and read it!

The Silent Place was published in September 2014. The author was Yue Wen. It was published by the Writers 'Press. It was a 32-page paperback with a total of 231 pages and 184,000 words. The price was 26 yuan. " The Silent Eyewitness " novel is equally exciting. Everyone is welcome to click and read it!

The description of " Silence " was rather vague. If it was referring to a work, there was no mention of a related work named " Silence " in the reference materials. If it was referring to the idiom " silence," it meant silence, silence, and no sound. He didn't say a word. He had no reputation and was unknown. " The Silent Eyewitness " novel is equally exciting. Everyone is welcome to click and read it!