silence that remembers

The author of " The Story of This Man " was Spicy Dried Fish.

A person might choose to remain silent for the following reasons: 1. ** Mental state ** - ** Happiness and comfort **: When a person feels happy and comfortable in front of others, they may be talkative and talk a lot of nonsense. On the other hand, if a person spoke less nonsense, they might not be happy, but they might also choose to remain silent. - Disappointment: When you are disappointed with someone or something, such as facing various situations and opinions, even if it is criticized and slandered, you are indifferent. It is not that you are not eloquent or unreasonable, but you are so disappointed that you don't want to talk. Silence becomes an expression. - [Understand your position in the other person's heart: When you know that you are insignificant in the other person's heart, you will choose to remain silent when you feel that there is no point in talking to someone who doesn't care about you.] - [Distrust: As your experience increases, you may no longer trust others easily. You can't speak your mind to anyone, so you choose to remain silent.] - ** Don't want to disappoint yourself **: If you get a neutral response when you confide in someone, in order to avoid disappointment, you will no longer express yourself and remain silent. 2. ** In terms of interpersonal relationships ** - ** Weakened in a relationship **: Words are insignificant in a relationship, and they have even been criticized for speaking out. They will choose to remain silent in order to protect themselves. - ** Disdain to care **: After experiencing many things, I feel that some things are not worth arguing about. In order to gain peace, I no longer care about them and remain silent. - [Disdain to Explain]: Sometimes, the more you explain, the less trust you get. For those who deliberately doubt you, you don't need to explain. Just wait for the right time. 3. ** In terms of personal growth and accomplishment ** - [Too much stress in life: As I grow older, I have to take on many roles in my life. The pressure increases. I feel that talking will only increase my troubles and I can't express it. Therefore, I choose to recover in silence.] - [Appearance of accomplishment and maturity: Knowing that there are some things you shouldn't say and some things you shouldn't say. Silence is a form of respect for others and also an expression of accomplishment and maturity.] 4. ** Mental defense mechanism ** - ** Silence Effect **: When some people were young, their needs were not responded to. When they said their needs, they were criticized instead, forming a vicious cycle. When they grew up, they might become silent because of this self-protection and self-digestion consciousness. They had something to say but did not know how to say it. " The Silent Eyewitness " novel is equally exciting. Everyone is welcome to click and read it!

The lyrics of If Love Remembers are: " If you forget the fleeting fireflies, wait for the memories to shatter and sink." Falling on your heart mottled, that drag is my reluctance to part. If the longing had not been lost, and the longing had returned to the first moment. The warmth of fate, I want to keep it for you. If love remembers our promise, I will live for you even if it hurts. Waiting along the outline of my memory is my persistence. If love remembers the promise I keep for you, I will love you without regret even if I overturn the cause and effect. I've been waiting for you to respond to my wish for you."

" Silence " meant " silence." From the reference materials, there were many things related to " silence." - There was a movie called " Silence," which was released in Korea on November 2nd, 2017. It was a remake of the Chinese film " National Witnesses." It was about the murder of a rich man's fiancée and a series of stories after the daughter of the rich man was suspected to be a suspect. - There was a criminal investigation TV series called Silence, which was first aired on June 23, 2023. It was adapted from Zhu Weijian's novel, Black and White Road: The End, Silence. It told the story of the police bureau director, Lin Yin, leading the task force to capture all the criminals. - In terms of philosophy and life perception, silence had many meanings. For example, ancient books such as the Tao Te Ching mentioned that " those who know don't speak, and those who speak don't know " to explain the relationship between silence and wisdom. Silence could be a kind of calmness, a kind of mind, a kind of cultivation. It could be chosen because of mental fatigue, disappointment, or wisdom. " The Silent Eyewitness " novel is equally exciting. Everyone is welcome to click and read it!

" Silence " had many meanings. From the perspective of interpersonal communication, silence could be a manifestation of wisdom. Wise people knew how to stop talking at the right time and not easily expose their thoughts and trump cards. For example," those who know don't speak, and those who speak don't know " expressed that endless talk was often petty cleverness, and knowing silence was great wisdom. In terms of emotions, the end of emotions was often silence. When people were disappointed to a certain extent or saw through some things, they might choose to keep quiet and use silence instead of questioning or arguing. This was a form of self-protection or silent resistance to the status quo. There were also cultural works named after " silence." For example, the movie " Silence " was a drama film about a series of stories triggered by the murder of a rich man's fiancée. There was also the TV series " Silence ", which was a criminal investigation theme. It was about the case of a special task force led by the director of the Public Security Bureau. " The Silent Eyewitness " novel is equally exciting. Everyone is welcome to click and read it!