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" A gentleman is unparalleled in the world, while a stranger is like jade." It was commonly expressed as " a stranger is like jade, while a young master is unparalleled in the world." This was a very literary line, coming from a poem that had no exact origin. The entire poem was titled," The shadows of the brothel are sparse, and the lover is still as old as before. Her delicate hands are like jade, and her light makeup is better than silk. He led you into the Hall of Fragrance and talked about the past and the present. Your heart is deep, my heart is clear. The covenant was made in three generations, and the song under the moon was written together. Unexpectedly, the mandarin duck stick, flying apart, longing for the bitter. Even if there is a pillar of faith, can not tolerate secular. A gentleman is unparalleled in the world, and a stranger is like jade. We can't be born in the same world, but we can return to the same earth." From the content of the poem, it seemed to be a love tragedy. In online pop culture, this expression was often used to praise men and women for being good-looking. Some people would also use it to describe some people with outstanding temperament. For example, Kaka fit this description in the hearts of fans. Some people also mentioned that Luo Yunxi's Runyu and Zhang Zhiyao's Full of Flowers also fit the temperament conveyed by this sentence. In addition, there was also a romance novel called " A gentleman is unparalleled in the world, and a stranger is like jade."

There were two novels called " The Legend of Gentlemen." One was written by 18019465142. It was a martial arts novel and was in a serial state. Currently, only the chapter of "Yanyu Villa" was known, but the specific plot content was not clear. The other was a novel written by the online writer Onitsuka Baby," The Legend of the Four Gentlemen," which was published in Jinjiang Literature City. <a href="/?from=ask_words" style="color:red" target="_blank">Read more exciting novels for free</a>

The Way of a Gentleman Reading The Way of a Gentleman was like a deep exploration of culture and morality. From the book, one could feel the meaning and requirements of a gentleman at different levels. In terms of interpersonal communication, there were different realms of friendship between gentlemen. Although friendship like mountains and rivers was fascinating, it could be encountered but not sought. This kind of friendship was often accompanied by high risks. Chang Yi, on the other hand, was closer to life, practical and relaxed. The daily mutual help was the embodiment of it. However, friendship was not a pure land. No matter what kind of friendship it was, there were hidden risks. Many depressed and sad experiences in a person's life were often related to friendship. In terms of personal cultivation, a gentleman should strive to improve himself and face all kinds of challenges in life positively. This was a positive and aggressive attitude towards life. At the same time, he had to be as benevolent as the earth, tolerant of all things with a broad mind, and bear social responsibility. A gentleman takes nature as his teacher, draws nutrients from nature such as plum, orchid, bamboo, chrysanthemum, etc., treats all things in the world with benevolence, and lives in good faith. In a complex and ever-changing social environment, the way of a gentleman was even more precious. The gentlemen in modern society were not moral saints who were unattainable, but ordinary people with modern consciousness. They could stick to their beliefs and principles and not go with the flow. In the face of all kinds of temptations and pressures in life, they would not show off external materials, such as money, work, real estate, cars, etc., because these were short-lived and fleeting in the long river of life. They knew how to cherish their own health, and they also knew that life was a process of constantly having and losing, choosing and giving up. They would not take others, themselves, the past or reality too seriously, but face the ups and downs of life with a peaceful attitude. In short, The Way of a Gentleman provided us with many inspirations on how to become a moral, responsible, peaceful, and positive person in modern society.

In the Doctrine of the mean, Chapter 33, there was a saying," The way of a gentleman is dark but gradually developed; the way of a villain is bright but gradually perishes." The gentleman's hidden Tao became more and more obvious, while the villain's Tao became more and more obvious. This reflected that the gentleman paid attention to inner cultivation and kept a low profile, while the villain would eventually fail because of his hypocrisy and short-sightedness.

The way of a gentleman had many meanings. In the traditional sense, a gentleman was the ideal personality standard in Confucius 'mind, and it was still used as a standard of being a person. From the perspective of culture and personality, Yu Qiuyu's essay book, The Way of a Gentleman, elaborated from the perspective of China culture and personality. In terms of code of conduct, the "gentleman's way" was embodied as "slow in speech and quick in action", and he had to have his own way of doing things, such as "coming from afar" in the face of visitors from other places;"Be loyal to the body" when performing his duties;"Distinguish between righteousness and benefit" when faced with moral choices of interests;"When others are in danger, follow the principle of" not doing what is righteous, there is no courage "; On the way to pursue dreams, there are" even if there are thousands of people, I will go "and so on. When it came to fame and fortune, a gentleman should 'transcend the world and not enter it'. Even if others enjoyed glory and wealth, a gentleman should still abide by his own moral standards and principles of life, maintain the thoughts and realm of benevolence, righteousness, and morality, be kind and generous to others, uphold justice and truth, and not be confused by fame and fortune and power. He should have an extraordinary state of mind, so that even the emperor and prime minister could not do anything about it. Moreover, a gentleman could be detached from worldly affairs and not be influenced by fame, fortune, and power. He could reach the realm of transcendence. In terms of self-cultivation, they should improve their self-cultivation and moral quality."They should not beg for opportunities to enter and leave the official family. They should rely on the official power to fight with others, and be content with poverty and keep their duties." Judging from the results of moral cultivation, a gentleman pays attention to inner cultivation and hides his strength and biding his time. The gentleman's hidden Tao is becoming more and more obvious, while the villain's Tao is becoming more and more obvious. Furthermore, the way of a gentleman emphasized the unity of knowledge and action.