Why am I so Clever?

I won't be writing a face-slapping-focused novel with stupid young masters popping out of nowhere just to fill the plot, nor will I be writing female leads that are just trophies for the main character, all female leads will have their dreams and personalities, and they will act and think like living beings.

Although it's going to be a mature web novel, I won't be writing explicit sex scenes and it won't be a story focused on sex.

I'm still pondering about whether I should make a harem for the MC or not, but regardless of my choice, my previous point will remain, the female leads that are interested in the MC won't just act fine seeing him close with other women like "oh, he is powerful, so it's okay, I don't care if he is with other women," I have always found this stupid. If I make a harem for him, the MC and his romantic interests will suffer a lot because of the serious emotional conflicts, as it should be.