I'm not neglecting myself, I'm prioritizing others

Her husbands ganged up on her.

Actually, her husbands, Octavian, Tieya, and even Archibald all tag-teamed her.

Once Alexander awoke, not a one of them would listen to her, they demanded that she eat, drink, sleep, and not just stay glued to Alexander's bedside nonstop.

Octavian insisted that she rest properly and be healthy to watch over her subjects.

Tieya fussed that she needed to keep up her strength for Snowball, who had apparently been throwing a fit from the moment he realized she wasn't coming back to sleep that first night and had stopped eating and gotten aggressive with his fathers.

Archibald said sternly that the empress couldn't neglect her health so drastically. That it would endanger their alliances and weaken her position politically.

Her husbands demanded all in their own ways for her to eat and rest.

She put up a valiant fight.