isn't there also a way for the spirit to grow along with him. if not then I guess we'll just have to forget about a spirit once he outgrows it.

Oh it's coming.

But from the dates it's been 16 years not 6

what i just cant fail to see is that communication is a big issue in this novel. All this could have been avoided if they just took five minutes to talk but all they care about is fighting and acting first. At some point it gets tiring.