Kalenn
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Strangely my brother actually walked/ran before he crawled . You just put him on his feet and he was off
Many people who have never been abused condemn the victim for going back to their abuser again, and again. Those people are unaware of trauma bonding. The abuser will hurt the victim and when the victim is about to leave, they use love bombing. The love bombing has the victims brain making happy hormones. Thus having the brain making an unfortunate connection between the abuse and happy hormones. Hooked on these hormones often has the victim coming back even though they can see the abuse coming. And just like any other addiction once the victim is cut off, from the abuse and happy hormones that comes from it, they will experience extreme suffering. This makes it incredibly hard to leave and makes it seem that leaving is worse than staying. (I got most of my source from Obelis.art on instagram and confirmed with other sources such as Broxtowne women’s project and Healthline, though I would suggest doing your own research)
It ’s good to set limits and boundaries.
I think she forgot because of the stress of the situation and being engage makes so that the negotiation that she had in mind before needs revision.
Nope
If anything you should be thankful! After all she did calm him down which probably turned out better for you. 🙄
I am happy that I finally am able to read about a professional secretary that is not poke their nose where it does not belong and just does their job.
“Don’t leave me here!!”