man just don't try to convince some one who thinks a nonvirgin women is good as a wife otherwise because he has no dignity or pride so he will not get your point no mater what, the only exception is if she is a widow then there is no problem with that

Pride

This MC feels like a dumb cowered with a lot of advantages that he became some what normal, like the way he acts, befriending the the children of the plane, what the hell bro you are the MC of your own story develop yourself first that you male friends out of preference not feer