18 The behavior

I stared at her while she was eating the foods she ordered. I have to stop what she was going to do.

Maybe Ezriel can help me about this. Right I will tell him about this.

Kries Mae finished her foods and stood up then look at me.

"come on let's go. We're gonna be late to our class"

She said so I finished my foods and then stood up and followed her.

We encountered Ecka and her friends she just rolled her eyes at me and then went inside of the cafeteria. Thanks goodness she didn't do anything to me today.

It's a miracle that she didn't tend an argument or fight with me today. Well if it will happen, I won't fight back anyway. It's just nonsense and a waste of time.

But right now the one thing I'm bothered with is about Kries. The bahavior she has today are familiar to me.

I watched her looking at her phone. I will guess, she's typing because obviously she is texting someone and I'm sure it's the guy.

She turned to me with a smile on her face.

"Khiella. I can't wait to see him again. We're going to met later"

Kries said in excitement and giggling. I won't let that happen. She shouldn't do that. I will follow her later.

We went inside our classroom and sat down. She seems very active today to something she shouldn't be active to. I swear if this continuesly happen to her, surely she might go crazy.

This will drive her very nuts.

After a minute our professor for today is now here and starts her lecture.

But my mind is in somewhere again.

Thinking about what am I going to do after. Should I tell this to Eman? Surely he will get mad especially to me because I let his sister to do such things like experience the one night stand even if it's definitely not.

I got interrupted when Miss Elvira called me and make me answer her question.

"you are not into my class again miss Avadell."

She said and raised her eyebrow to me.

"you're always like that!. Not because you are clever, you're not supposed to listen to every lessons I am lecturing".

She angrily said to me and slapped her stick on the desk and looked at me  very mad.

"I'm sorry miss"

I said and slightly bowed my head.

"sorry huh?! Now answer my questions and get out of my class after!"

She said, yelling at me. I just nodded and look at her straight.

"now. What is the difference studies between Architecture and Engineering?!"

As usual she got mad at me like the other professors in this school that are handling this class.

I don't know what is their problem to me. I always answered the questions they want me to answer.

I swallowed and look at my classmates before answering her. This scene always happens.

"The difference between an architect and an engineer is that architect focuses more on the artistry and design of the building, while the engineer focuses more on the technical and structural side. The responsibilities of engineers and architects often overlap. Both professions are integral to the design and construction of structures, such as buildings and bridges. Architects design the space to meet client needs, as well as the aesthetic appearance of the inside and exterior of the building. Engineers' main responsibility is to ensure the design is safe and meets all appropriate building codes. Engineers concern themselves with making buildings safe and functional by selecting structural materials, determining the structural members of the design, and specify the electrical, heating, ventilation, air conditioning and plumbing systems. One way that engineers and architects communicate their ideas to each another is through blueprints, or technical drawings."

I said then everyone clap their hands for me and miss throw me another question.

" how will you explain Engineering and Architecture that are needs or don't need to be partners "

All of my classmates reacts and just listen to us.

" For architects and engineers, collaboration can be a collision of conflicting personality types and professional goals. Sometimes, the result is a butting of heads and egos. The negative stereotypes go like this: Architects have their creative visions in the clouds while structural engineers hold fast to data and science, with no compromise for innovation or beauty. "

" then? "

"In terms of identity, engineers are taught in school to solve problems using their chosen functional specialties, such as structural engineering. Architects are taught to think about the whole picture—to have a vision for a completed structure. After graduating, an architect might describe his vision, from which a young engineer could isolate 19 different problems. If the engineer is not brought into the process early, she might assume the architect's familiarity with a concept. In turn, the architect may be uncomfortable revealing his lack of technical knowledge."

She turned her back at me and faced the board then told me to sat down but immediately return her words because she remembered saying that after answering her, I should get out of class. So I did went outside of the classroom.

But before I could leave she told me that makes Ecka react more. She's happy because I was out of the class again.

"you are not allowed to attend to my class for now on in 3 days"

She says and then back to face the board and right everything was important to what I have said a while ago.

I rolled my eyes and turned to go directly outside.

"poor her. She deserve that"

Ecka said and tell it to her friends. They are like that.

Kries Mae shooked her head and looked at me like she wants to go with me but I looked at her saying that she should stay.

I was just thinking about her and then that happened again to me. I abruptly sat down on the bench and watched the other students walking at the school path.

Sitting very lazy while watching the trees and leaves that swaying whenever the wind blow hit it and some leaves fell down on the ground. I got interrupted when someone spoke up behind me. So turned to the source of the voice of a familiar man.

"what are you doing here Khiella, it's still class hours"

I rolled my eyes at him and back to the trees.

"obviously the usual"

I said and supinely touch the grass on my feet and kick it.

"ahuh! you've been kick out again to your class today."

He said and laugh that makes me look at him very irritated. Did he need to laugh at me?. His making me hate him.

"stop laughing at me"

I said but he laugh at me again and sat beside me to piss and irritate me even more. I turned to him and glared.

"I will guess why"

Fernand said and laugh again then put his one finger to his chin and look at me with a smirk.

"you makes them feel so unworthy to their profession".

He said. I turned to him and glared. What the heck I didn't do that. Is he accusing me?.

"I never do that. Fernand stop accusing me about that"

I said in irritate.

"are you here just to piss and irritate me? If yes then leave me alone".

He laugh again so I cross my arm while glaring at him.

"well.. I can't blame you for being so smart but you should at least listen to them even it's kinda boring".

What is he talking about?. But yeah his right though, but I'm just really bothered about Kries Mae.

I turned to him and stare. He raised an eyebrow to me and said.

"owh. Is that a look of adoration?. Stop that now Khiella I can't catch you, when you fall"

'tsk' in his dreams. I rolled my eyes because of what he said. This man is very high right now. What an assuming guy.

"dude in your dreams"

I'm just thinking if he I can asked about Kries Mae case right now. But is an Psychology knows about it?. How would I know if I will not try?.

"owh. That hurts"

He said and laugh again.

"seriously I'm just thinking if you could answer this question I will ask to you"

I said then he stop from laughing and look at me.

"what is it?"

Should I really have to ask him?. Okay I will do it.

"what do you think is the reason why if someone is very active to sex in a different level like it's not normal anymore"

He stared at me and I wonder why?. Is because of surprise or he was shock about my sudden question?.

It's fine if he can't answer me.

"don't bother to answer me it's--"

I wasn't finished yet to what I'm going tell him when he cut me off.

"why did you ask?"

I just shrug my shoulder and turned to the trees again.

"Just answer me. I don't need question because answer is what I need".

He frowned and swallowed before answering me.

"There is no "normal" level of sexual response because  it's different for every woman. You may also find that what is normal at one stage of your life changes at another stage. For example, it's common for an exhausted mother of a baby to have little interest in sex. And it's common for both women and men to have lower sex drives as they age. "

He said but that's not what I want to hear. I want tp hear something that are capable of Kries behavior lately.

"Female sexuality is complicated. At it's core is a need for closeness and intimacy. Women also have physical needs. When there is a problem in either the emotional or physical part of your life, you can have sexual problems."

That's not I want to hear. Now I know something happened to her because to what Fernand told me is different from what Kries Mae behavior right now.

Surely Ezriel can help me with this.

"okay that's enough. Thanks"

I said and stood up. He look at me watched my every moves. That looks I know. He thinks I'm curious about that.

"stop that look Fernand. it's not what you are thinking"

Then walk away after but he followed me and then walk by me.

"why are you following me?"

"where are you going?"

We both said. I stop and turned to him. We Stared at each other for a second. I was the one who look away.

"I told you it's not what you are thinking"

But he didn't stop. I rolled my eyes and then stared at him and cross my arms.

"okay fine I'll tell you"

I said and look away after.

"I just noticed today that Kries Mae change her behavior"

I told him.

"what kind of behavior?"

Fernand asked and I'm hesitant to tell him about it.

" spill it Khiella"

Okay I'm going to tell him. Even if I'm still in a bit hesitant.

"her sex active isn't a good state. She was now being a horny person. I noticed that she always somehow dullbrained like she's imagining to something"

I said and then look away to turned to the trees again.

"maybe that's something Ezriel can help you with. I think that's a caused by a drugs. Not sure 'bout that but when can asked the experts".

He said and I nodded that's what I am thinking even before.

"but wait I remember about that."

I looked at him waiting to continue his words.

"Physical and mental health, as well as your overall emotional well-being

Sexual thoughts, behaviors and compulsions that are hard to control

Use of recreational drugs and alcohol

Family, relationships and social situation

Problems caused by your sexual behavior. Hm?! "

"There's an ongoing debate in the psychiatric community about exactly how to define compulsive sexual behavior because it's not always easy to determine when sexual behavior becomes problematic. As I remember 

Many mental health professionals use the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM-5), published by the American Psychiatric Association, as a guide for diagnosing mental health problems. Because compulsive sexual behavior doesn't have its own diagnostic category in the DSM-5, it may be diagnosed as a subcategory of another mental health condition, such as an impulse control disorder or a behavioral addiction.

Some mental health professionals consider compulsive sexual behaviors as sexual activities taken to an extreme with significant and negative consequences. Although more research is needed to clarify and classify all the criteria, diagnosis and treatment by a mental health professional who has expertise in addictions and compulsive sexual behaviors will likely yield the best results."

I also remember that. I searched about that 3 months ago because of boredom. It's my hubbies to read about learning knowledgeable in educational.

And for the treatment of it. Treatment for compulsive sexual behavior typically involves psychotherapy, medications and self-help groups. A primary goal of treatment is to help you manage urges and reduce excessive behaviors while maintaining healthy sexual activities.

If you have compulsive sexual behavior, you may also need treatment for another mental health condition. People with compulsive sexual behavior often have alcohol or drug abuse problems or other mental health problems, such as anxiety or depression, which need treatment.

People with other addictions or severe mental health problems or who pose a danger to others may benefit from inpatient treatment initially. Whether inpatient or outpatient, treatment may be intense at first. And you may find periodic, ongoing treatment through the years helpful to prevent relapses.

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nd the medication about it is. In addition to psychotherapy, certain medications may help because they act on brain chemicals linked to obsessive thoughts and behaviors, reduce the chemical "rewards" these behaviors provide when you act on them, or reduce sexual urges. Which medication or medications are best for you depend on your situation and other mental health conditions you may have.

Medications used to treat compulsive sexual behavior are often prescribed primarily for other conditions.

We look at each other and says what's in our mind.

"what do you think about the types of psychotherapy of it?"

I asked and he think about it.

" I think it's. Cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), which helps you identify unhealthy, negative beliefs and behaviors and replace them with more adaptive ways of coping. You learn strategies to make these behaviors less private and interfere with being able to access sexual content so easily."

I nodded and think about the others.

"that's what you think? To is the Antidepressants. Certain types of antidepressants used to treat depression, anxiety or obsessive-compulsive disorder may help with compulsive sexual behavior.

Naltrexone. Naltrexone (Vivitrol) is generally used to treat alcohol and opiate dependence and blocks the part of your brain that feels pleasure with certain addictive behaviors. It may help with behavioral addictions such as compulsive sexual behavior or gambling disorder.

Mood stabilizers. These medications are generally used to treat bipolar disorder, but may reduce compulsive sexual urges.

Anti-androgens. These medications reduce the biological effects of sex hormones (androgens) in men. Because they reduce sexual urges, anti-androgens are often used in men whose compulsive sexual behavior is dangerous to others."

I said and we stopped. Alright I think I should search more about it.

" okay that's enough Fernand. I should go for the class I will attend. Let's just talk later after. "

Then I walk away while looking at my wrist watch.

" thanks for the help and knowledge Fernand bye"

He nodded and said goodbye but before Fernand told me that he will go to the house after.

He will pick up after the class and we're going to the house together after. But I'm going to look for Kries Mae before anything else.

Just want to make sure about her.

I'm sure that guy would do it again when they are going to meet again.

And I should stop it.