Suggestion

"I'm not going to interfere in your decision, help you both make one, or choose a side. I can only let you know that I don't mind having a younger sibling, that I won't be discomfited, and that I actually rather look forward to meeting them. But I also agree with what Dad said; I'm worried that your body can't stand the strain of child-bearing." Lu Man sighed. "You can't blame Dad on this, Mom. It's because he cares about you, that's why he chose to do what he did. How many men can you find who can do what Dad did, willing to undergo vasectomy so the wife doesn't suffer?"

"I know, and that's why I'm even angrier. Vasectomy can't be undone, and he never even discussed it with me beforehand! My anger stems from his not telling me," Xia Qingwei said.

"I understand," Lu Man said softly.

Wang Juhuai apologized like an honest boy. "I'm in the wrong about this."