It is always lost, something, when something else is found. It is always a trade. Nothing in this world happens good to you of which you will not pay the price. How you pay it though, is all ways of the trade. Sometimes you pay it dearly and sometimes the trade does not seem balanced. Sometimes you feel cheated and at others you seem to have gained more than you should've. It's all transient. What you took from this Universe will go back to her. In the end, the very end which is debatable to come or not, everything will settle, every trade balanced and every lost - found, every found - lost...