A silent funeral ——2

" All right that is enough!" Madam Gu turned to glare at the crowd that was getting excited again and made sure to glare at Old man Tong for a second too long as she turned to look at the crowd and said, " Is this the time for you all to be acting like this? Hurry up and send your unmarried daughters and mers to prepare for the funeral since Yu Dong and her husbands can't do so." 

In their traditions, only the funerals of the elders were arranged by the people of the house but the funeral of a child could not be held by the elders of the house since it would be considered as unfilial on the part of the child if the elders were to prepare for the funeral. Even if Yu Dong and her husbands went home they could at most cover the mirrors and the holy scriptures with red clothes, other than that it must be left in the hands of those who were unmarried and young.