"Brother, since I've already bought the things, there's no sense in returning them, and besides, the shop wouldn't take them back."
"But think of how much silver coin all these things cost! Little sister, you are now a married woman and have decided to settle down and lead a dedicated life with Zhao Erhu. It's time you learned to plan for your husband's family. Living must be economical; you can't just spend extravagantly because your brother-in-law dotes on you. Keep in mind that Erhu works hard on his business ventures outside, and you ought to understand this."