Starting again in Naruto

One day I was just a normal anime loving Janitor, the next, a baby born into the world of Naruto as one of my least favorite characters. Warnings: Self harm, body mutilation, parental abuse, death, lesbianism, protagonist being born intersex (not that existing intersex should be something to be ashamed of, it's just that people keep complaining this will be a fetish fic or something when it's normal for people to be born intersex and face discrimination because of it), genital mutilation, torture, maybe eventually lesbian sex?(leaning towards not including sex at all), strong language, domestic abuse, plot line deviance. Unfortunately it won't let me use 'intersex' as a tag so you'll have to settle for it being here'